Think about how it’s difficult to read someone’s mind.
How could you be certain about how a man feels about you? How do you know if his intentions are true towards you? How can you be sure that he cares?
I bet that those questions have crossed your mind at least once in your life. If you can’t find the answer, you feel that your relationship falls into a cha-cha dance: you want to give your all but, at the same time, you try to hold back just because you want to protect yourself.
It’s totally normal. No one will blame you.
But there’s good news.
There are signs that show that a man really loves you.
So when the question “how to know if a man really loves you” comes up, look for those 5 foolproof signs that show he loves you.
1. He remembers the little details
One foolproof way to know if your crush likes you is when he recalls the minute details about your life.
Yes, on that point: men are just like women: they remember things that matter to them.
Have you noticed that he remembers things that you might have mentioned without even paying that much attention when you said them? How big was your surprise? Much better: has he noticed some crucial details about your personality? A perfect description of that point would be a scene of the movie Me Before You. Will Traynor gives a Bumblebee tights to Louisa. It’s the best gift ever she says!
A man who really loves you will ‘size’ you pretty well. Sure some of his guesses will miss the mark. But it’s the intention that counts, right? (yes, I’m defending my team as a man).
Now, that being said, try to differentiate genuine recollection coming from normal guys and, in the worst-case scenario, from stalkers.
You know what I mean?
2. He makes sacrifices and compromise
Among the boys, you will hear him say, ” I’ll rather die than to watch **inserts a female themed show** “. My friends have said it. I have said it. It’s normal: our stomach seems to have difficulties processing most of the shows made for women. But in reality, a man who has a crush on you will definitely suck it up and will accept to watch the worst (from his perspective) “girl movie” ever just to be with you.
In other words, you will watch the show, he will think about you most of the time.
Here’s the point: a man will often compromise on his principles and go against his nature to make a woman he loves happy.
Another sign that will tell you a lot about how he feels about you: he postpones important work or stuff just to be with you. I remember once a friend who said something that stunned me: he was organizing a party. He suddenly smiled and said:
“Jo will not come: he has a new girlfriend and doesn’t want to admit it…”
This is when I realized that I have neglected the boys recently. And that I was totally hooked…
A man who truly loves you will, most of the time, make your needs a priority.
But don’t expect him to watch girl movies over and over. Your crush is not necessarily a masochist…
Related article: to know what girl movie your man will be more than happy to watch with you, read the article: 5 romantic movies that you can watch with your soon- to-be-boyfriend
3. The eager to solve your problems
From any gender’s perspective, you automatically want to make your crush happy.
This is why people do crazy and dangerous things when they are in love.
A man who really cares about you will always be inquisitive about what troubles you. He will do his best to find a solution; even if his ideas are totally ridiculous.
Again it’s the intention that counts.
Some men will stay silent: they try to find something to say but can’t find the words. This signal is more difficult to notice but do not miss it: it’s a powerful sign that he really cares about you.
Truly, it’s fulfilling to have someone who strives to make you happy. But do not develop the idea that he owns you anything. This is the best way to chase a man away.
Especially quality men…
Related article: to know how to find quality men, read the article: how to find a quality man.
4. He adores you even with your flaws
Men are too choosy!! You know that.
We live in a world where a Shrek-like man wants a beautiful lady with stunning curves.
But, like I said in my Free eBook, this is not really a problem. Do not hesitate to read again the chapter about that one need that will make any man crazy about you.
Realize that you’re toxic for a man who likes you. Your so-called “flaws” are like a pinch of salt to him. As they say, real love is when someone loves you ‘despite of’ rather than ‘because of’.
Related article: to know who is the perfect boyfriend for you, read the article: 5 Signs he’s the right guy for you.
5. He shows you off
Does he invite you to places? Does he show you off on social media? Is he always eager to introduce you to friends and family? If you get at least one yes, you have a great sign. If you have 3 yeses, you’ve just hit the jackpot.
There’s no lady a man would rather be proud of than the one he loves.
One thing to note is that when a man shows you off, it communicates he has found the best thing. In addition, this action also makes a bold statement that he doesn’t care if showing off hurts his chances with other women since all he ever wants is in you.
6. He includes you in his conversation about the future.
A man who really likes you will not only talk about his plans. He will but will imagine scenarios of you in his dreams. I’m not talking necessarily about marriage. It can be a simple project like planning to go camping.
If you notice that he includes you in one or more of his plans, check one box. That’s the cherry on top if he asks about your plans and thinks of merging his with yours.
Did he talk about moving out of town and informed you about lucrative jobs in that town too? That’s a life partner in the works.
There you have it! These are the top 6 signs that show that a man is really in love with you.
Let’s just hope and pray that you don’t friendzone such a man when he will come around.
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Your straight-to-the point relationship coach,
Jo Fontaine
Life and relationship coach.
Love, happiness. Enjoy life! ♥
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