In this article, you will understand that there’s logic in the art to get guys notices you.
To get noticed, you need to be charming. To be charming is you will have to get some habits. All those habits can be come down to this concept: social skill. And the only way you will get confident with your social skills is to get the habit to charm the men and women you meet in your everyday life.
Here what happens: when people are them comfortable with you, you get comfortable with them. Your body language changes tremendously: you know that you are irresistible.
Here are a few tips you can use to reach that goal. Use those techniques with men and women until they become second nature.
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Tip #1 use their name
All the irresistible women I known have that habit: when they talk someone, they always say his or her name. It doesn’t matter if you think that people are egocentric; it’s just the way it is: the sweetest word ever the first name. Get the habit to put naturally the other’s name in the conversation. People all around you will notice that, and they will want to be treated the same way.
This is the most basic way to attract men. Make them want to be treated the same way you treat the others.
Tip #2 ask the right question
There are a lot of articles out there that talk about those “100 questions to ask the men you date”. I have always been a bit embarrassed by those kinds of articles. Maybe it’s because I’m a man. Many of those questions would make me wonder if I’m getting a job interview without having applied to anything. 10 questions like that and I would run away!
But it doesn’t mean that you should not ask questions. In fact, it’s an excellent technique. But you should ask the right questions first: those that could lead to some emotional bonds. What kind of questions will help you to reach that goal? Emotions questions.
Asking emotions question is an excellent way to make someone feel great inside. In a precedent article, I have told you that you don’t have to worry that much about the subject you will choose when you decide to approach a man. But when it’s done, use an emotion question to put some depth in the conversation.
For instance, you learn that he likes to play guitar. You can ask:
“How do you feel when you play guitar?”
“Why have you chosen guitar? Is your idol a guitarist?”
Realize how powerful this type questions is. They will lead to hundreds of doors ready to be opened to continue the conversation.
And remember. Start right now to use that technique. Use it with men and women until that it gets in your DNA. You will not have time to think about those tips when you will be face to face with that cute guy you have always dreamed about!
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Tip #3. Find something to share about it.
The other benefit you will get when you to ask emotion questions is that you can easy rely on the answer to go further in the conversation. For instance, it doesn’t matter if you don’t know how to play guitar. But if he says:
“When I play I forget all my troubles”.
You can certainly rely on that answer. Maybe you read a good book or you start painting to forget your own troubles. You have something to add to the conversation!
Another variation is to tell a story. Just think about Hollywood, about the ads on YouTube or when you watch the Super Bowl. There is a reason why they attract the attention. Stories are very hypnotic. You can use that technique when you talk to someone. You will become more charming. Men (just as women) love stories. Have fun telling a story about your experiences. You can even talk about a moment when you were embarrassed. It will show how lighthearted and positive you are.
Don’t worry if you don’t know how to tell stories. You will get better with time. That’s why I urge you to practice with the men and women you meet.
If you want to get better faster, you can always practice at home. Get in front of a mirror and practice telling your story. It’s not silly. That’s what the best speakers in the world do. The good stand up comics practice before they get on the stage. Why wouldn’t you?
Tip #3. Positive feedback and praise
A very wise man I know told me once that you can shape the personality of a person you love with positive feedback and praises coming from the heart. Once again, I was totally blown away by that his powerful confidence. What an old man! Sure, your goal is not necessarily to empower a person that you don’t know that well yet. But a good word always creates a boost in someone’s self-esteem. Charming woman is chased because she makes people feel better. Get that reputation and you will be irresistible.
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Tip #4. It’s cool to be bold, sometimes…
I have said that clothes do not matter that much to attach a man. As long as you take care of your body and you respect yourself, a man who’s already like you will not change his mind whatever you wear. But it doesn’t hurt to use the appearance to distinguish yourself a bit. Of course, your new style will have to fit with your personality somehow. A few weeks ago I said to a cute and shy lady: “You know what? I think that some green eyeshadow would look great on you”.
“I can’t wear that color… It’s not me at all… I… I can’t…”
Yes, I know. Now, what is very interesting is that, sometimes, the lady wears very colorful clothes. But most of the time, she wears black and gray pans and sweaters. Let’s say that, one day, she decides to be more “extravagant”. All she has to do is to stick with the colorful style she already has.
People, in general, are attracted by men and women who distinguish themselves. Decide to be bold in your own way and you will look confident, charismatic and charming.
Find your bold style and try it. You will be surprised.
Today, the conclusion will sound like a last tip: don’t try too hard. Practice slowing, get some confidence. Like a great French Canadian boxer once said, get some little pride here and there. Don’t expect too much success right away. Have fun developing that new side of your personality. This is something that you will keep all your life.
Continue to practice your techniques with men and women. Once day, people around you will star to look at you differently.
Now you know what to do to get guys notice you.
Go! And find your amazing man.