A great weapon, a wonderful experience
Imagine that you already have the magic weapon to attract men. You can use it ever you go. In fact, you just can’t leave it behind. That tool is a part of you. It will make men notice you. They will want to hear more about you. They will want to talk to you. Because when they do, they feel fantastic.
The only mistake you can do is to forget that you already have this secret weapon. What is it?
It’s your voice.
Think about those actors you really like. I’m talking about those men who have a wonderful, full, warm voice that make you weak on your knees.
- Sean connery
- Morgan Freeman
- Chris Hemsworth
- Antonio Banderas
Women like to talk about how they like a voice. Usually, men do not. But when they do, it means something spectacular happens in their body after hearing a female voice. Men love that kind experience and are looking for more.
Now please remember that I’m not talking about phone sex. I’m talking about that sexy tone of voice that you ladies can have when you talk about how you love to eat chocolate cake or when you talk about a sexy man you crossed on the street yesterday.
That voice. Hum… It feels great just to hear it…
And you have the chance to offer that experience. No matter how you look, or how old you are.
Your voice communicates your feelings
Do you like the man you work with? Your voice is one of the best tools to express your feeling without saying anything too obvious. The subject can be anything. You can be in your office and talk about a report your boss asked you to write. But your voice will stage the mood. saying that:” hey it’s getting warm here“! If you are shy, this is a good new. The reason is that you are offering the man you choose a space where he can approach you easily.
Your voice is what you use to create feelings
I will talk about how to change the tone of your voice in a few minutes, promised.
Just before, I just want you to remember that you should use your voice with all the men that you talk too.
Even to the women.
Why? Well, this is the best way to use your wonderful voice and make it sound more and more natural with time. It will sound sexy and friendly. You will not “sound fake” if I can say it this way.
Now how about the man you want. Will he react to the tone of your voice? If you have done it right, surely. Be certain that something will happen in his body, thanks to you. You will not necessarily notice what happened.
How to know if it worked? Soon you will notice that he try to make you talk: he says “allo” each time he sees you; he takes a peek when he crosses you in the ally.
This is all good sings.
Your voice it’s all about the color of your voice
There are good sings because using only your voice, you start to influence but how to create that tone of voice. Here I will give you some examples of actress with great voice. Try to find what make each voice unique and what is common in those legendary sexy voices
Have you noticed this? All the voices are different. The styles are not the same. The accents are different.
But there is something common in all those voices.
- They speak in the low range. All those women speak in the low register of their voice.
- Their voice is calm, not exited. In some ways, those women seem in control of themselves even if there are living a difficult moment.
- They don’t talk fast. They take time to breathe when they talk
- The voice is sexy not because it sounds like they whisper (Carey Mulligan doesn’t have that sound at all). Those voices are sexy because they sound a bit like they just go out of bed.
You have the recipe. Now let’s talk a bit about each ingredient if you will.
Your low register
Usually we are so eager to finish our point when we talk that we raise our voice in the register like it would make us speak faster and clearer.
Not only it makes your voice annoying but talking in your high register can make your voice too nasal.
Think about the TV show The Nanny. Yes Fran was sexy physically. But think about her voice. Do you think that she has a sexy tone of voice?
Do your best to talk “lower”. Do so and you let men think that you are in control of your emotions and in control of your energy.
A calm voice means a lot.
Men especially as they get older don’t like to deal with headaches as they go out with women. A calm voice here means a lot. It means again that you are in control of yourself, of the energy. A calm low voice creates mystery.
Men love mystery.
Your voice will make men think: That does that tone of voice means? She seems to be full of energy and control. To do what?
And of course one of the first possible answers will be: Sex.
The just-coming-out-of-bed voice
That color of your voice will confirm what he suspects. Do you remember when a friend called you when you were talking a nap? What did she say?
“Oh, you were sleeping… I sorry…”
You have a different voice when you get out of bed. If you can take some of that color in bring it to your everyday talk, you have done it.
“But what is my just-coming-out-of-bed voice?”
Take your phone and put it near you when you will go to bed tonight. Tomorrow, when you wake up, record yourself. Say anything. You have your tone of voice “on tape”.
Now it will take some practice to color your everyday talk with just the right amount of just-coming-out-of-bed tone. That’s the reason why I suggest that you practice your voice in your everyday talk with people: men and women.
Here a clear example of how sexy a voice can be used even if you talk to a woman. Kylie Jenner is a phenomenon.
Have you noticed how Kylie seems to hesitate but in a cute way? It’s never too long but when she does it, she creates a kind of intimacy. She includes the listener in her world. She really masters her technique.
Remember. You will never sound like Cate Blanchett or Kylie Jenner. What you can do is to get your sexy, warm voice, just like those great actresses did.
Have fun go practicing.
Now go and find your amazing man.