Posture, smile and body language
You tell me, lady. How many times have you heard or read that you can make a man fall crazy in love with your body language?
Well let me tell you this:
Hum, it’s true…
We have hesitated that way to talk from our ancestor thousands and thousands years ago. Surely, they were able to talk (forget about the cavern man: they had friends, kids, used to make jokes around a camp fire. The only difference with us is that, maybe, they didn’t have to pay any taxes). But they had sometimes to use communication without words because they were far from each other or because it body language can say more, faster.
You can say everything you want. Sometimes even what you don’t want to say…
So this system our grandparents for another era have created is just great to express complicated feelings. You know when you are in a very complex mood that would need too much word to explain? Like:
- Don’t bother me.
- I don’t feel OK.
- I’m free.
- I love you.
- I’m ready.
Notice how you react when you see a guy that you really like. Try to remember how you stand. Do you look nervous? Maybe your heart starts to pump faster. Are your legs crossed? Do you smile? Maybe you blush a bit.
What? A lot? Wow, you’re really must have that guy under your skin!
Now you realize that you are already using sign to show that you are in love, or at least interested.
You know that your body start to change anyway when you are in love. Your cheeks flush, your lips swell. All those sing are there to show that you are available. To what? Well, yes. Those signs are mimics of orgasms.
Ok, that the only information men want to have!
So I will not say to you that when you will see that guy the next time, smile, be friendly and look at him when he talks. You already know that in some way (but to learn some great other physical signs that will make you irresistible, read the article 5 tips to find a boyfriend). Today, we are going to have some fun. I would like to show you some movie clips where the actresses show how to use body language. Those classy women are great teacher to show you what this kind of language is all about. Maybe you will find that the gestures are sometimes more than exaggerated. But they will help you to get the point. Try to find out how you can take those ideas and adapt them to your personality.
Look at 1.50 and see how Joan Crawford uses her eyes.
Maybe you need something more subtle? Go at 0:58 second and look the little smile Monica Bellucci makes just to show her interest in this well-known scene.
It’s like magic
So with body language, you can create a sexy atmosphere without even talking. What is great with body language is that you can totally fool a man. Even if you feel like you are not good in the art of seduction, you can fake it with your body language. Just remember this principle:
Act like it and you will finally be like it.
Here at 0.25 second, you will notice how a woman not sure of herself can suddenly put the switch on and look like a strong woman, ready to seduce. Marilyn is such a great teacher, in her way.
You can always use your body language to your own advantage: to create a mood that will let the man start to fantasize about you. This is your goal. Make that motor run. But it’s not the only profit that you will get when you start to use your body language. Yes, even if you don’t feel like a seductress, act like it and the man will feel that this is what you are.
You will one day start to FEEL like you are an attractive woman. Here’s the reason why: the brain is a bit dumb. For him the way you act is the way you think. So if he sees that you move like an attractive woman, he will give you the feeling that this is what you have.
This is how you play with your own mind and how you play with our feeling, girl.
Now how to create a mood that will help you to use a sexy, seducing body language without even thinking about it? Here are some ideas.
Create some hummm feelings
You will need time to take care of yourself to release the tension in your body. The more you will feel great in your body, the more it will be easy to have that sexy body language. It’s like when Elaine was eating a chocolate. All her body language looked like she was having orgasms. She was in a sexy mood for sure. Have some activities that will create that feeling in your body and you will more easily act like a sexy woman. Like.
Here are some ideas that will help you feel great inside. You will then have the chance to create a body language of attractive woman easily. Have fun.
I don’t do yoga but the drummer and the bassist practice Yoga for many years. (I want to start practicing too because I’m flexible like a plywood plank). Both of them say that beside of the enormous physical benefits this form of training brings, Yoga help you to be happier. The reason has to do with the increase of the serotonin level and decrease of the monoamine oxidase and cortisol. Yoga practice helps you to improve depression and makes you feel better inside.
Dance is excellent to make you forget about your worries and to feel “closer” to your body. If you have taken dance lesson you will know what I mean by that. You just start to feel sexier. You start to walk in a different way after a few lessons. It just feels great. It can surely affect the way you talk to men and your body language.
A bit like yoga, Pilates help you to get back your focus. But what may surprise you the most is that it makes sex better. Yes, all those Kegels exercises, those ‘’lift your pelvis floor’’ helps your muscle in this region to up your pleasure in bed. Knowing that you do what it takes to be in a better shape and have better orgasm may affect your body language when you are in front of a man that you like. You will have to make that experience by yourself.
You have other ideas to feel better in your body and to help you talk with sensuality with your body language? Share your ideas with us in this little box below. You have any question, don’t be shy!
Now take those ideas and try them. Find some of your own.
And go. Find your amazing man