Imagine. A lady I know asks me this question: how to tell if a man loves you? I will give you the answer in this post. Continue to read this article and you will know how to read his mind. You will find the signs that you will have to look for. So stick around!
Sign #1: the way he looks at you
The classic advice you will read on the net is that a man in love will look at you with his jaw open like saying:
“Oh, my god! That goodness is not for real!”
Well, it can happen. But a man who’s really in love with you will often feel insecure. He will most certainly be nervous.
This is an important sign. That’s how most men are. They can do nothing about it.
Think about what the great boxer episode Muhammad Ali says in a classic interview. Here is Veronica Porché, third wife by his side. The host asks her:
“What did he say the first time you met him?”
“He didn’t say a word”, says Veronica.
The Host is surprised.
Muhammad Ali raises his shoulders and says: “I was scared… Beautiful women are scaring!”
Like always, Ali tells the truth in a few words.
Think about the man you like. What’s his nonverbal language? Is he nervous when you are around? For sure, a man look at you straight in the eyes, smiling you will know for sure that he likes you. But he may have a serious feeling for you if he’s unable to stay still when you are around (or if he stays anomaly silent).
After all, that what most of you ladies do when you see a cute man, right?
Related article: Read the article How To Know If A Man Loves Me to be able to read even more signs that show that he’s in love with you.
Sign #2: You are important to him
Here is what a man desire deeply. We want to make sure that the women we love (I mean by that, girlfriend, sisters, mother and best friend) feel happy and secure. Yes it’s ridiculous; a woman can take care of her own life. But that’s how men feels. This is what they want to see.
This feeling is important for you. Here’s why.
For a man, this feeling is a big flag. The day has that feeling for you, he will know: he’s in love. At that moment, he will know that what he feels inside is not only sexual.
Now, it’s possible to see some of those signs from the outside.
One big sign is that he will try to make your life easier. Please understand this. A man in love is not necessary a dummy looking for attention. Only a few men in love will change themselves into a slave and obey every time you snap your fingers.
But look at the way he behaves with you. The little attentions. Look at his desire to help you. It means a lot. He just cares. Most men want to help a lady they like. He will make some suggestions when you have a problem. Maybe that suggestion will sound stupid. That’s OK. It’s the intention that counts!
When you will live a hard moment, look how he behaves. Maybe he will try to encourage you.
Or he will say nothing: he tries to find the right words to say; but he just can’t find them. He looks concerned.
Both reactions are important signs: he cares about you.
Again it’s the intention that counts. The desire to help. Pay attention to the way he looks at you. Listen to the tone of his voice. Following me?
Sign #3: he’s happy to see you
Here’s how I realized that I was deeply in love with my lady: things seemed to go better every time I was thinking about her (even if I was living a nightmare at the office). In fact, there was a shift in my state of mind as soon as I was with her. Suddenly, life was wonderful. The song “my girl” is not only a cute song. It talks about a typical experience men have. Do you see that he starts to relax when he’s with you? Is he happy to be with you? Again, you will have to look for physical signs instead of words. That’s how most men are.
Of course, those signs will not necessarily be detected the first date. Maybe it will take 3-4 more dates. Too long, you might say? I will answer that love at first sight doesn’t happen very often. It usually grows.
Now look at the way he looks at you. Notice is body language. Does he turn toward you immediately when he sees you like if he is trying to say: “I’m going to hug her and keep her close to me forever”? What you want to look for is that eagerness to be close to you. But not necessarily the action itself.
Because if it was that obvious, you wouldn’t ask yourself the question “how to tell if a man loves you”.
Related article: Read the article how to make a man miss you to learn how to make him crazy about you.
Sign #4:”Why you’re not here”?
This sign is like the other face of the coin. Here’s the logic: If he wants to see you more, it will hurt if he hears that you are not available. You will hear a kind of disappointment in his voice. You will probably see it in his face. Now listen. Many people on the net suggest women to play games with that feeling. It’s up to you. But playing HTG (hard to get) can backfire at you. I stopped dating some women for that reason in the past. HTG works like a charm for insecure men (and, yes, they are a lot of them in those days). But be careful it you feel attracted by a man who knows what he wants. Most of those guys hate games…
Now, it will happen that you are not available. After all you have your own friends, your family. A real man will understand. But can you see or hear a kind of disappointment? If the answer is yes, he’s falling in love with you.
Related article: Read the review Get A Great Guy Guide- review to learn how to get to the next level with that cute of yours.
There may be 2 reasons why you’re not sure about the type of relation you have with a man. The first one is quite simple: He doesn’t love you. Well, he may like you as a friend or a colleague. The second possibility is that he may have some feelings for you. But they will have to grow. If you find yourself in that situation, you will have to pay attention to his signs.
You will not have all your answers in 1 date.
Now, if that cute man is one of your colleagues, you will have to find a way to met him outside of your office. The job is rarely a good place to find the type of answers you are looking for… You need more emotional intimacy.
Now you know the signs that you will have to look for.
Go! And find your amazing man.