Taking care of the business
Try to remember. See yourself back when you had a wonderful moment, when you just had fun with friends or your family around you. Or maybe you were alone, reading a book in a park, sitting on the grass, your back on a tree. Do you remember how you felt, how light-hearted you were.
I will say it again and again. That person is the real you. The girl with that positive vibe. The one that makes people feel great all around you.
We, men just love your “positive-you”.
“But I can’t always be in that kind of mood”.
Is that the way to think, lady? Is this the ways to consider happiness: Like a kind of responsibility?
“Lord… What’s need to be done to feel better is a kind of new job; and I have enough to do”.
Again, you are a friend, so I will not tell you what to do: this is your life. BUT remember that taking care your business (your mind set, your happiness, your positive vibe) will attract more men than you think. All you will have to do next is to choose the right boyfriend or the right husband.
What is positive vibe, anyway?
What is positive vibe? Well, this is your mental state when you project your confidence, your positivity all around you. Suddenly, you start to see that people want to join in the circle so they can taste a bit of your vibration and feel better. On your side, you feel great inside. For sure, thing can go in the wrong direction. But you feel that you can deal with it. Even if, sometimes, you swear, you just feel that you can’t get in a bad mood for long. Instinctively, you always start to look for solution when there’s a problem. You feel good. You feel centered.
A lot of people say that men today are scared of strong women. The truth is that we can’t help to notice a lady with positive vibe. If a strong woman means a light-hearted, centered woman, only a few guys can resist to this type of lady. For course there is all kind of tastes in the world. But a man will say, seeing a positive woman:
“Wow. This woman is different…”
Feeling better pays. Time to create a line of men, waiting to win your heart.
Here’s how to start to build your positive vibe fast.
Don’t be an average
Yesterday, my sister just told me that just stretching 10 minutes every morning for about 3 months makes a huge difference in the way you feel your body. That routine seems to have an impact even in the way you think.
“Really? Just 10 minutes?”
I was wondering how many times I have heard something like this.
Not that much.
I have to say this: my sister has her own way of thinking. She thinks about how she feels when she does things. Her decision is based on those feelings. Not really about what people will say about it. I’m not surprised that, now, she always gets noticed by men (even if she is shy).
So the rule is this: the best way to get notice by men is to not be in the crowd.
I do not talk about wearing extravagant make up or clothes (but it this is your style, no problem). I’m talking about the way the average men and women think about their live; the reason they do stuff. You will notice that most of the people will make a decision because they heard that this is the right way do it.
Let’s take that example: what do they think about doing exercise every day? Most will answer that it’s important to be in good shape. Being healthy is precious, right? So, they start to train hard to lose weight. They write on a piece of paper “don’t stop” and stick it on their mirror in their bedroom. But a few of them will take a look at their feeling after exercise.
Of course, there’s a right way to use exercise routines to feel better and transform your body language (read more about this in the article Find a boyfriend by making a first great impression). But always try to make your final decision based on how you feel after your experience. How do you feel when you wear high heels, for instance? Do you feel great or awkward? If it doesn’t feel right, then you do not have to wear them.
Got to get on the good foot
Do your best to collect different ways to feel better in your body, to feel lighter in your heart. Soon or later, you will even create some new techniques. For instance, I know a woman who have discovered that reading one of her favorite novel on a café terrace create such a relaxing moment that the feeling lasts for hours after she had left the place.
Your job is to collect those wonderful moments. Find new techniques. Men will perceive the result in the way you talk, the way you move and look at them.
“I like the way you talk, I like the way you walk”- Susie Q. CCR.
Always remember that the more you feel relaxed and in control, the more men will instinctively think that you could be a great sex partner.
You can always read again your eBook Get A Great Guy Guide to keep in mind this idea: for a man, relaxation, Control and fun means H-O-T.
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Now you understand that having a sweet life is showing how hot you are.
Now go. And find your amazing man.