What is great for us, men, is that we have so many “weak” points. This is a wonderful opportunity for you, ladies, because you can use those flaws to seduce us and to may make us feel better at the same time.
Everybody is a winner!
On this article, you will find 5 techniques that you can use to make the man of your dreams fall in love with you. All you have to do is to pick any one of them and try it. Once you feel comfortable with this tactic, try another one. Just remember to have fun: love is such a crucial matter that it should not be taken too seriously.
Keep the techniques that work best for you. Those tips, in this article will solidify your “seduction process”. They will make the man you want notice you, will make him will feel great inside. He will wonder why he feels this way when he sees you, when you talk to him. Now, you are becoming a kind of mysterious…
It means that you have all the ingredients to be the center of his love life. So let’s start with the first tip, OK?
Make him feel that he’s your hero
“A hero is no braver than an ordinary man, but he is brave five minutes longer.”-Ralph Waldo Emerson
Men are just like that. They like to fix things. When they help a lady, they feel that they have done their man’s job. You may have eared that men love to feel like a knight, right?
You can use this need to your own advantage; but you don’t to say literally:
“You are my hero!”
Ok, sometimes in the right context this comment is exactly the right thing to say.
To look like a princess in the eyes of that cute man, ask him for some help. But lord, that technique works. How many times a woman have used that technique on me! . Of course, you do not want to abuse of that technique. You will blow all your chances. Men hate to be manipulated just like women.
What is great is that most of the time, helping made me feel great and sexy. Most of the time, the requests was made at the right moment; I was not worrying about my own businesses. I was happy to help.
The best moment is to use that technique is when you really need some help. For instance let’s say that your feet hurt. That’s exactly what a woman said to me yesterday as she asked me for some help. I knew that she was having a rough time. She looks at me, smiled and said with her sweet voice:
“You’re an angel. Thank you!”
This technique is perfect when you are sick and you need some help to finish a report. Always let him know that you are not in your best shape. You cute guy will remember this when you will ask for some help. ( Do yo want to know more about how to seduce him by showing your vulnerability? Read the article How to find the perfect mate. Be irresistible).
“Every day is a new day and you’ll never be able to find happiness if you don’t move on.” -Carrie Underwood
Now, you’re already know that men like to fix things. They feel that they are responsible for the well-being of the women they care about. This is something that you will have to remember the next time you are sad: if you are worried and if he likes you he will try to do something about it. He will ask himself:
“What can I do to fix her problem? What can I do to make her feel better?”
Do you know how difficult it is to fix someone else’s personal issues?
I mean, it hard to fix our own problems!
Deep inside, we all know that it’s almost impossible: everybody has to take care of themselves. You will have to step up to fix your emotional issues, Do not hope that the man you like will help you get rid of them. This is the worst plan you can have to seduce him: you will spoil all your chances. If he likes you, he will, for sure, try to find a solution. Then he will realize that the problem is too heavy for him:
He will back off.
This is why it so crucial to fell good inside. Being happy is a great way to bring some energy in his life. You tell him this:
“You know what? You can still do your things, follow your dreams. I’ll be on your side. I will not add any more problems that you already have.”
That’s the reason why men just love happy women( to get more tips on how to seduce that cute guy you like, click here to read my review of the book Get A Great Guy Guide).
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Men are jealous.
They are jealous of their independence, their freedom.
If you are expecting to be on his side 24 hours 7 days a week, think again.
Think this way and you may lose all your chances. The best was to prevent the risk of being too intrusive is to continue to see your friends. The idea is not to make him understand that you have your own life, to make him feel jealous. Your goal is to make him realize that he will never fell like he’s in prison with you. Men hate to feel like they are doing time. They run away as soon as this idea pops in their mind. You may think it’s unfair but this is how most men feel about relationship: it’s freedom vs. jail. The oscillator will come from one side to the other constantly.
Do your best to make it go on the right side: yours.
Bring the best out of him
I still remember when I joined my actual band. The music was totally different from what I’ve used to play before. You see, I’m a jazz musician and I grew up listening mostly to hip hop, gospel and French West Indies music. Even if I’ve always loved rock music (and especially heavy metal music), I was struggling to figure out how I could help that new blues rock band named The Fire Inside. I remember that my soon-to-be girlfriend believed more in me that I did in myself. Man, how many times did she share some of her music discoveries? It’s like she had always known the kind of musicians that could inspire me so I can create a new sound for my band.
What a woman!
You can do exactly the same for your guy even if he’s not your boyfriend yet. Do you know what he likes the most to do? Tell me about his passion? Get some information about his hobby and start your research. You have so much to offer! Be the source of his inspiration. He will start to look at you a different way. Will he fall in love with you at the automatically? That is not necessarily. But he will think that you are different of all the other women he knows. Isn’t that’s your goal? Create your territory into his head. And slowly your picture will pop in his mind constantly.
Do something nice
That section is a bit like the last one. You don’t try to buy his heart (it never works). What you want to do is to show that you are positive force for him. You know what I mean? You don’t have to buy him some food necessarily when he’s working on his project for long hours. Just knowing how you can help him is enough. Do you know that just asking will make you look different from all the others women? This is what I mean by the positive force that you represent. You show that have something great to offer and what you do is not only taking. Wonderful! Men know how to make the difference between and a woman who really cares and a gold digger…
Teasing (without doing too much)
Teasing is one of your best weapons to be special in the heart of the man you want. By teasing, all you say is that you have a good sense of humor, that you are not afraid to have fun and that you are sure of yourself. Teasing creates sexual tension. It can be very sexy. Just be careful though. Do not go too far…
Do not tease about physical characteristic. For instance, I remember a woman who used tease me about my ears (I have little ears looking like two open garage doors). I remember that I just hated my ears when I was in high school. It was, back in the days, a big issue. Not today. So I said to myself:
“Wow girl. I understand that you are in love. But what a mistake! If I was single and I still had some issues about my ears as I did back then, you would have spoiled all your chances.”
Remember that you just want to have some fun with that cute guy. Do not talk about the body (except if it’s positive, of course).
(You can learn more about how to teasing in the article how to make him fall in love with me. The art of teasing).
Now what you can do is just add to those tips to the art of touching and the Art of playing with your voice and you are a goddess of Seduction.
Make him feel great. Make this amazing man yours
Now, go lady!