This article is for you, ladies, who are about to fall in love with a shy guy.
You probably know how special this situation can be: it’s difficult to flirt with a shy man. If you are too aggressive, he might run away like a terrorized squirrel; if you don’t do make the first step he will never do what it takes to get to the first base (whatever that expression means)!
To flirt with a shy man, you will have to be subtle and aggressive at the same time. Here are some tips to can use to flirt with that cute man you want to make yours.
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Be a little coy
Remember what we said about shy women? Men love them. It’s in the male DNA. So being little coy is a perfect technique to flirt with any guy; shy men included. Let’s say that you are with him in a store and that you are about to ask a question about a product. It’s happens that you are a bit nervous to interrupt the busy employee running back and forth. Why hiding your emotions? You can tell your cute guy how you feel and touch him like if you would like to hide your face behind his shoulder. The goal here is to create some cute moments. You want to show your vulnerability and use that very same moment to touch him without being too flirty.
Yes, even if that’s exactly what you are doing…
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Another great way to flirt with a shy man is to ask for his advice about something. You need his point of view because you need some help resolve a problem. As an example, here’s a classic question that many men use when they want to flirt with a woman..
The next time you will see your man, tell him that you are in trouble. You have a nephew. Soon he will be 10 years old. You have no idea of the gift you will give him. You need some advice! Help! Here, you can add that cute, coy attitude as you ask for help.
Now, what do you think about his answer? If you like it (or if, at least, you appreciate his help), show it. Here, you have the opportunity to tell him how much you appreciate him. Touch his arm or his elbow as you thank him. Even if he’s shy, he will feel that the context is appropriate.
Sure, that situation doesn’t happen quite often in his life; he will have a reaction.
Good for you!
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Not too public
This is a very important point here. It doesn’t matter what technique you will use. Make sure you are alone with him when you flirt with him. Shyness has a lot to do with the fear of other’s opinion. Wait until there’s nobody around to start the game. He will be more relaxed as you talk to him and you will have the chance to create an even deeper impression on him.
Don’t go too fast
This point should have been talked about first. But I wanted to share the best technique to flirt with a shy man right away. You will have to take your time if you want to flirt with a shy man.
Think about time as a friend. Not an enemy.
You have no choice.
Here’s why you can’t go too fast with a shy person. That guy will have to know you better. He need to feel secure before he gets in the game. Yesterday, a lady told me that a shy colleague tried to flirt with her. Then he ran away and hid himself for about 45 minutes! Yes, that’s how shy men are. The lady knows because she’s a bit shy herself. So she told me that she will not be too aggressive. She will let him get back on his feet first. She will continue to be that sweet lady she is. He will know that nothing has changed between: she still likes him. It means that he can try to flirt with her again safely.
That tip looks like the ask-a-question technique. Shy people are less shy with people they know. Try to find your common interests. Maybe you will learn that he’s a horror movie fan. If you like to see monsters and killing puppets too, good for you! But maybe you are more a thriller movie fan. You have here the opportunity to understand why he likes scary movies that much.
You just want to know why people are ready to pay to be scared to death!
Time to take the lead
Remember the lady who like that cute, shy guy? Here’s what she said after telling her story:
“I will let him chase me… A bit…”
Yes, that’s true. With shy guys, there will be a moment when you will say: “OK, that’s enough. Let’s get busy!”
But just before you do get to the serious stuff; watch his body language, his reaction. Does he try to flirt back with you? This is a green light for you. Time to take the lead! For instance, you can say that you like to be with him and that you would like to see him again.
It doesn’t have to be too complicated.
Flirting with a shy guy is different. The rules seem to be totally different. But flirting is flirting. You will just have to be more subtle. A great way to take the lead when the time is right is to flirt through text via Facebook messages.
But remember that warning. Do not tease a shy guy. Most of those men have a low self-esteem as love and relationship is concerned.
Now you know how to flirt with that cute, shy guy.
Go! And find your amazing man.