Suppose that you decide to find a husband fast. In 90 days
What would you do? First, I suppose you would say that, now, it is impossible to the shy, to wait for what life has to offer. You can’t be a patient woman! You will have to make things happen. If you watch football, let’s say that you are about to do a blitz.
But how to do that?
The solution is to establish an aggressive strategy. You see, if you want to find a husband fast, life and love become more a matter of science and mathematics.
It’s that simple. Set a clear goal and focus. You will have to meet your objective to find a husband. It’s all about the intensity of your research. To prove my point, I will talk to you about the marriage of Sister Rosetta Tharpe, The Godmother of Rock and Roll (to see some of her amazing performances, click here).
How to find a husband fast. The story of Sister Rosetta.
Sister Rosetta Tharpe is one of the first gospel singers to perform in both churches and secular clubs. Some people still blame her for that decision.
It’s sad, no?
She is one of the musicians who created rock and roll music. Chuck Berry forged his guitar style listening to her. Rosetta was ahead of her time. And she was a woman. Black. So today, only a few people know her.
In the 40s Sister Rosetta with her guitar is a huge star. But starting in 1949, her popularity started to go downhill. Imagine her panicking. The great legend Mahalia Jackson starts to eclipse her. Then Rosetta looses her singing partner Marie Knight. The great guitarist says to herself that she needs to do something to be back on the top.
And she finally has that great idea.
This kind of ceremony is maybe the best show that most people will ever create. God knows how it is difficult to make people come in a concert. But a marriage seems to attract men and women easily.
It’s almost like magic!
So why wouldn’t she organize a huge marriage; something that would be celebrated in a stadium with an audience of more than 5 thousand people.
Wouldn’t that be a great marketing stunt?
So Rosetta takes the most outrageous decision of her life: her third marriage will be celebrated in the Griffith Stadium in Washington, D.C. She will sell tickets to her fans and the recording right to Decca Records. Now, the plan is almost all written.
But there is just one problem.
Who will be the husband?
She has no one in mind…
Rosetta Tharpe finally finds a man to marry just a few weeks before the ceremony: Russell Morrison. That man is not well-known in the music industry. It doesn’t matter. He will be her manager.
Now imagine the reaction of her family and her closest friends. They suddenly hear that Rosetta is getting married! The coming event resonates throughout the country for more than a month. It was in all the newspapers. People are getting crazy! They see Rosetta like Cinderella. Russell Morrison is the Prince Charming.
Finally, 25 000 fans paid their ticket to attend her wedding.
They bring gifts for the bride: dishes, crystals, TV set. This show is a huge success. And it is, at the same time, a wedding ceremony, with real minister.
Now, picture yourself the wedding party.
“That stadium was packed! It was packed. I don’t see anybody how could do this back then“. -Lottie Henry from the Rosettes, (a quartet singing with Sister Rosetta).
There are a few lessons that we can learn from the Rosetta wedding story.
Use the media. Does it mean that you will have to put an ad in your local newspaper or on Craigslist saying that you are looking for a man? Well, not necessarily… I have heard that some people used that technique. But you don’t have to if you feel that this idea is a bit too extreme. Just ask yourself this question.
“What person represents the media in my social circle?”
If you are Christian, it could be your pastor or a priest. I remember my sister talking about her last visit in the north of Quebec.
She was talking with Patrick, very good friend of her in the street when a priest crossed them and said with a big smile
“Good afternoon. Hi, Patrick. Is that beautiful lady your girlfriend?”
“No, answered Patrick. She is a good friend. But that’s all…”
The priest continued his walk.
“Those damn priests. They always try to match up people and marry them…” grumbled Patrick.
That’s true. Pastors and priests are great matchmaker. They love ceremonies, and they know a lot of people. They know who are single.
Are you involved in your community? The other options are the president of association. Maybe you can find somebody who knows a lot of people and is a natural matchmaker. Nancy, my best friend is one of them. She just knew that her friend and neighbor would be a good match for me.
She was right.
The other lesson is that Sister Rosetta putted a lot of pressure on her, organizing her marriage before she has found a man.
That was crazy.
She almost didn’t make it! But remember: if you want to find a husband very fast, you can’t follow the usual rules. You almost live “dangerously”. You will have to find a way to put a lot of pressure on you so you have no other choice but to be very proactive.
Like I said, you don’t have time to wait for what life has to offer…
The dating sites
This is another way to use the media. But here you will have to use only sites that are built to attract men who want to have long-term relationship. I’m talking about sites like eHarmony.
This site is the most popular but you can find other site of the same kind. Be very active in those sites.
A last word…
What happened to Rosetta and her love life? Well she and Russell Morrison were married for 22 years.
Now, I will have to say something very important
You know how to find a husband fast. You will have to put everything you got. You will have to forget the rules.
And maybe you will marry the one who says “yes”.
Even if that man is not the right one for you.
Russell Morrison married Sister Rosetta because she had money. He wanted to have an easy life. I’m not saying that he didn’t love her. But the first reason he said “yes” was because she was famous. The other problem was that Morrison was a lousy manager (maybe one of the main reasons why Americans forgot that great woman).
You want to find a man fast and get married? You certainly can. But please, do not forget what I just told you. Is he the right one for you?