How to find a husband after 50

Ladies who know how to find a husband after 50 have this in common…

They know that the more you get older, the more it’s important to have fun in your life;

A pleasant life is crucial for your social and love life. Kids know that. They act this way almost instinctively. It seems that, for them, there is only one say to live an existence. Sadly, we tend to lose that wisdom as we grow…

Now, how about you? What do you think about having fun?

Do you think that going out is not for you anymore? As you read the next paragraphs, you will realize that your love life can be brighter in the future. Here are some tips to help you find the husband of your dreams. Even if you are over 50.

Friends And Love Life

Women who know how to find a husband after 50 like to spend a lot of time with their friends. They have their own social life. They don’t want to put aside people they love just to go out with men they have just met. And you know what? Real men respect that. They understand how crucial a fulfilling social life is. Men of quality are looking for active women who are more than happy to give a space for them in their live. Why? Because they need some time of their own too!

You Are Unique

Mature women who are lucky in love know how unique they are. Now how about you? Can you write a list of things you love about you? If you don’t, write one. It’s never too late. Start with your personality first. What aspect do you love the most? It’s not time to be shy here. Nobody will read your list. Maybe people say that you are sweet, that you are fun to be around. Maybe you are thoughtful… Now, how about your body? What is your favorite part? Maybe it’s your legs, your hands, your eyes, your lips? What is great here is that there is a good chance that men will love that part too!

Be A Passionate Woman.

Here how to be part lucky mature women club: be a passionate lady. Passion in life leads to romantic love. Those feelings are so alike that they always, soon or later, attract to each other. So tell me, what’s your passion? Do you love skating? Do you love painting? Maybe your passion is getting involved in your community or in your church. Just live your passion. Savor it. But please keep your eyes open. Maybe your future love is just near you. Maybe he’s one of your colleagues, one of the students in your painting class. What is beautiful here is that you will already have something in common. If you don’t have a passion yet, try something new. What about dancing lessons, for instance? Ballroom dancing is a great way to meet new people, to expand your social circle. The point is this: if you don’t have a passion, find one. Meet new people. The more people you meet the more men you meet. The more men you meet, the more it becomes possible to find love. Even if you are over 50.

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Stay Positive.

Women who have found love after 50 don’t get discouraged easily. They know that love at first sight is not something that is quite common. Except in the movies! They know that the most important thing in life is to taking care of themselves and take care of the people they love. A great love life is an addition. In other words, they don’t want to wait to be in couple to feel happy. They want to be happy right now. And they do something about it.

It’s Your life.

Be excited about your life in general. If you are passionate about your career, if you feel excited about your hobby, man will feel it. They will see how special you are. Men are very sensitive to vibrations. Vibration is not exactly like charm. Vibration is seen as charm. The more you feel great, the more people want to be with you. Vibration is sexy but it has nothing to do with youth. This point is very close to the third idea I shared with you ( practice your passion, if you don’t have any, find one). Here, I’m talking about your general attitude, about how you see your life. Think about that rule: being excited about your life means that you take care of yourself.

Keep Dreaming.

The more that you take care of yourself, that you live your passion, the more you will feel that being in a couple is almost pointless. And that’s when life will bring you the most wonderful present. You will not see it coming. As happy as you are, life will bring you something more. That’s why it’s so important to work on yourself first. Live to the fullest. Great things, comes to happy people. So start dreaming now. Start feeling better today. You are on the right path!

Show Yourself.

It’s difficult, after 50, to start to go out again. I’ve noticed it with my parents and their friends. But you will have to see more people on a daily basis if you want to find love. What I mean is that staying at home will do no good. You must be where men can see you. Go to Meetup.com. On this site, you can find great activities every week not far from your home. You will find single meeting evenings; meet ups organized by passionate people just like you: Music, dance, writing, reading… The choice is yours! You will love this site. Now go and have fun!

Let The Rest To The Universe.

Hum… That famous expression… What does it mean? That expression can be explained in simple terms. It means that when you take care of yourself, when do you decide to have fun, when you decide to be where people can meet you, you start to vibrate to such a level (you feel great) that surprises suddenly happen. It’s like things start to get along by themselves! It’s that simple. Do what you have to do. Then the Universe will do his (or her) part.

Beware Of The Long List…

The more you narrow your vision, the more it will be difficult for you to find a man. You must be ready to receive a gift from life. Your next boyfriend can be someone totally different from the kind of men you’ve been with before. You may be surprised how someone so different can just fit with your personality, your values, and your dreams. Of course, there are some points that you can’t negotiate. But keep an open mind. Accept to meet men from different backgrounds, different looks. Sure, they must be interesting, respectful, clean and economically self-sufficient. But do not narrow too much your options.

Maybe Not A Boyfriend…

… But maybe a good friend. Do not forget that option. My best friend once said that we could have been a great couple if we have met earlier in our lives. I smiled and said to her: “hum… I really don’t think so!” Our personality fit perfectly as friends. We are almost like brother and sister. But as lover, there would have been a bit too much fire… She needs a certain type of man that I’m not… Ask yourself: “well this guy is not an option as a boyfriend or a husband. But what about him being a friend?” For sure, many men will hate to be dropped in the friend zone. But you will be surprised how many of them will be more than happy to extend their social circle and go out with you as a friend.

Do you have any comment? A question? There is a little box below just for you! Leave your thoughts. I’ll be more than happy to read what you think.

Now, you know that in general, the best way to find love is to enjoy your own existence. The older you get, the more that law becomes true.

Go lady. And find your amazing man!

Love,

Jo Fontaine