In this article, I will tell you how you can find a boyfriend talking to perfect strangers. I will talk about the reason why you may decide to use that strategy and I will share with you some ideas that will make your research easier. In fact, those ideas can even enrich your social life in general. So here we go!
“Don’t talk to strangers”
The metal band DIO said it. Your mother probably said it too when you were 5-6 years old (just like my mom did). Sure, her intention was good. She just wanted to protect you. But, unfortunately, the consequence of that warning is that, with time, we have lost the ability to talk to people we don’t know. In front of a stranger, we tend to freeze. Nothing comes out of our mind!
The thing is that you will, eventually, feel need to expand your social circle. One of the reason is that you are looking for a new boyfriend but you can’t count on your family or your friend no more. You have seen all the options around you, have evaluated evaluate them all. Nothing seems to work. Now, you know that you will have to look outside your social circle.
In other words, you will have to talk to people you don’t know at all to find your man. Here are some ideas to start to talk to perfect strangers.
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Speed dating event. A system created to talk to strangers:
By system, here, I mean an organization that will assist you as you are approaching people you don’t know. Maybe it’s difficult for you to engage a conversation with a stranger. Well here’s one solution: go to speed dating events. In a speed dating event, you will have no choice. Even it you are shy, you will have to talk to men you have never seen before. In fact, it will happen so many times in the evening that it will become almost second nature at the end of the event.
Sure, speed dating is a very useful system because it has a lot of rules. It’s made to make people come to you: men will have to talk to you. In a Speed dating event, you cannot be ignored. You cannot hide too: you will have to talk to those guys. Shy or not shy, you will talk to, at least, 10 men in an evening. Of course tools like your copy of the ebook conversation chemistry will help you to create some wonderful moments with those fellows. More about this below. Promise.
Does it mean that you will be able to do the same in the street, after the event? Well, not yet. But things are going better! Here is the next idea.
After a while, you will feel more confident. You will think that you can start a conversation without all those speed-dating rules. O.K, you still need some help to find the common interests. After all, your future boyfriend has to share some of his passion with you, right? In this situation, single events may be a perfect solution for you.
Go to Meetup.com and take a look at the different types of single event groups. A lot of “meetups” seem to turn over a special topic, a passion. For instance, movies, arts, dance or religion. Obviously, the people who assist those meetups have a special interest in those topics. Let’s say that you like a music Meetup. You will not have to work hard to find the common interest you have with a man who attends to the same event. The organization has already done a part of the job for you!
Give yourself the chance to talk to the people who attend the meeting. Here, I’m not talking only about men. I’m talking to the women too. At first, you need to familiarize yourself with people you don’t know in general. Once you feel better, start to talk mostly to men.
Practice talking to people everywhere.
There will be a day when you will feel more confident to talk to people you don’t know. You will have the ability to easily find common interests. You will be more relaxed as you engage a conversation. Sure, you are not ready yet to approach men in the subway or in the street. So the next step will be about how to talk to the men you meet wherever you go.
Now remember this: the best way to engage a conversation is simply to ask a simple question.
What question will you ask? Well, for instance, think about a place you want to go. Let’s say that you will have to take the subway to get to your favorite restaurant. You already know what is the nearest the station. Why not practicing to talk to strangers by asking the directions? Just pretend that you don’t know how to go to that place. How do you get to that station, first?
Again, start to ask women first. Then, ask women and men. When you feel comfortable, ask the question exclusively to men.
This is how you learn to talk to perfect strangers. Once that important step is done, something magical will happen: some of those simple conversations will become flirts. It will happen naturally. So, for now, you don’t need to learn any kind of opener to start a conversation with a man. Let those great moments come by themselves.
Do you have any questions, any comments? There is a little white box just below just for you. I will be more than happy to read your ideas.
Now you know how to get more comfortable talking with people you don’t know. Practice, have fun.
And go get that awesome man you deserve!
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