“Crazy day at the office. It doesn’t matter. Feel a lot of energy inside. Going to blow your mind tonight”.
I don’t know how, but there’s not doubt: that woman has learned how to find and seduce a man using text messages. To tell you the truth, I still remember my reaction when I read that text. I said to myself:
“Woah! That woman is really hot!”
I didn’t know her that well. Sure, I’ve dated her couple of time. My best friend told me a lot about her and her kids. I knew that she was really shy. But for a reason or another, she felt secure enough with me to write this text.
Today, that woman is my girlfriend.
Text is an incredible weapon for you, ladies. In fact, I personality think that this tool is more effective in your hand than in ours.. You can create an image in our mind with only a few words and make us weak in the knees…
Here’s how to make a man crazy about you, using just your phone.
Just before we start
“Anticipation makes the hard-on longer”
Before we start, let’s do our homework. This moment will be quite interesting because you will take a moment to visualize what you want to create in the mind of that cute boy you like so much.
Do that preparation carefully: he will thank you a thousand times!
In the last part of the article 3 Right Places To Find A Man, I share with you a great video that will help you visualize the effect that you want to create. All you have to do is to draw what’s in your mind. Use that technique and tell me how it worked for you.
Now, I guess that what you are looking for is a man who falls in love with you, right? So the first thing I will tell you this: Girl, there’s no need to use texts that are too sexual. After all, you want to tell him that you are free, funny and hot. You just want to tell him that you like his sexy behind. You don’t want to go to far and spoil your chances. Like Ninon de l’Enclos said:
“Love never dies of starvation but often of indigestion”.
Yeah, too much is like not enough.
Your goal is to make him understand that you are interested. All you will have to do is using words that will create a certain kind of images in his mind. Your man will run that sexy little movie over and over in his head…
” What you do to me…” Keyshia Cole
Be our favorite movie maker.
OK. Now let’s be more precise in our goal. Do you remember the last time you let a man take a peak on your legs, your cleavage or your butt? Remember his reaction? This is what you are looking for. But this time, you will use words to create images. Now, think about a movie maker. She has a goal in mind: she wants to make you laugh. Maybe that all she wants to do is to scare you. What’s exactly your goal? What do you want him to feel inside? Let’s say that:
- You already know him, so you want to turn him on
- He’s your colleague. You talk to him sometimes. You want him to know that you are available.
- He’s a friend and you want to flirt with him. In other word, you want to put him out of your friend zone.
What is your goal exactly? Take your coloring pencils and make a new drawing.
“Let’s get physical, physical…”
So getting to sexual is maybe not the best idea at the beginning. The biggest mistake you can do is to recreate a line that you could find in a porn movie scenario. Sure, you can go hot and heavy with your boyfriend or your husband. But try to keep it safe if you are just starting the relationship. You do not want to scare him away.
Now it doesn’t mean that you can not “get physical” in your text. The best way to play that game and still be authentic is to play the “good girl who wants to be bad for once”. Of course, you will not say it bluntly (you, shy girl). You will give some hints of what you want.
A man is proud knight. He will, for sure, help a lady to take the dirty road…
So the point is this: start with some pointers. We will do the rest…
“Doin’ what comes natur’lly”- Annie Get Your Gun
One thing that is very important: keep your texts natural and organic.
Natural (for a man) means that your texts should not be too long. Men are constantly complaining about those messages that look like a novel without chapters (I had a discussion about that with my drummer last week-end).
Ladies, please, keep it short!
Organic means that you do not text too much. Remember: A man who gets texts over and over will start to think that there something wrong with you. You don’t want that to happen, right?
So here are some ideas to write a sexy text.
What did you say?
An easy way to write a sexy text is to use a sexy name when you have a discussion with him. What? He says that you can meet him downstairs when you will leave the office? You can write this message
“OK. I’ll meet you there, Handsome.”
Here’s another example. At 7 o’clock, you are supposed to meet a man. He not really a friend yet (in fact, you hope that he will be more than that). You have a suggestion that you think he will like.
“Hey, Good –Looking. I would like to eat something different. How about some Brazilian?
You feel that you are getting closer and closer? You can start to call him
Any part of the sexy-you
It’s easy to create a sexy image of yourself in his mind. All you have to do is to mention your favorite part of your body in a discussion. Of course, it must sound natural. Like always, asking a question is a perfect way to trigger some passion in a man.
“I want to dress different tonight. I want to try something new. Do you think that a dress that shows my side-boobs will be too sexy?”
“People say that I have beautiful legs. But I don’t know if I will wear high heels in the meeting. Do you think it will be too much?”
There are many other techniques that you can use to create a sexy text. You just have to your copy of the eBook conversation chemistry to easily create tens of new ideas to make that cute man fall in love with you.
Do you have any comments? Any question? Write them in the little box below.
Now you know how to tease that sexy man that you like so much.
Go and write your sexy text message.