Do it right or there will be some backfire problem
I want to share with you, ladies, a secret. With a few safe touches you can seduce a man and have the chance to make him your new boyfriend. It’s means that you don’t really need to spend a lot time in makeup, in buying clothes, or in working on you seductive voice (even if all those elements can help you to get your man).
But why? Well men have a lot of sensitive spots that they themselves ignore. A few years ago I had no idea of those places. But some ladies I’ve crossed in my life really had a solid knowledge of my “weak” points.
I want to teach you those place, when to touch them. Make him wonder why he can’t stop thinking about you.
The right place at the right time.
“Seduction is merely encouraging a man to do something he already wants to do.”- Lisa Kleypas
Those spots I will talk about are safe for you. I know that you face a problem; I can’t deny it. You do not want that the physical contact you have made with the man backfires on you, right?
“What will he think about me? Will he think that I’m an easy woman?”
Those techniques are “innocent” almost a-sexual. But they will slowly start a fire in his body. I have felt that sweet kind of manipulation.
I can talk for every one of us: we just love that feeling.
So you are safe, you both are winners. Can you ask anything more?
So your goal is to make him fantasize about you, to start the machine, and make it run. But you want to make that seduction process look innocent almost naive. You want to let the fire grow by itself in his heart.
To do that, you will have to feel confident in yourself. For a man, a confident woman is very sexy. The best way to create that state of mind is always to remind yourself that what you do is using simple, safe, innocent techniques start with the first one and notice what happened. Did he look at you with disgust or like you were a piece of meat? Not at all.
Maybe he will be a bit surprised (but that a good news).
So do not hesitate to play that kind of seduction game. As you use those techniques, you will get rid of your complexes (if you have any).
So let’s start (I’m pretty excited).
The forearm touche
Just touch his forearm with the palm of your hand. One second is more than enough if you don’t know him very well.
It’s innocent and it works!
This technique is pretty simple and each time a woman does it on me, something happens. At first, he will be a bit surprised. You will not always notice it. There are some streams of sensual energy that start moving inside. Our forearm is very sensitive to woman touch. I have no idea why. Whatever is the reason, the most important here is that this touch is not overly sexual; it rather considered a seduction move.
The best moment to use that technique is when you ask a question or you just remind of something you want say to him.
Just make that touch light, short but sweet and you will start to create some magic in the body of the man you want.
The shoulder touch
“The climax of seduction is to give the illusion that you’re not trying to seduce”- Mathias Malzieu
Maybe you feel that this touch says too obviously “I want to seduce you”. I will answer to you that the man will know that there’s something going (he will not be certain of what exactly). But still that “move” is safe enough because it’s not openly sexual.
Now, if you want to be even more subtle, touch delicately his shoulder with the palm of your hand. I remember in a supermarket a woman who used that technique on me. I have never seen her before. She really wasn’t my type. I will never forget that slight sensation she created inside of me.
Are we that easy to manipulate? Yes we are. No man will complain about it: it feels good.
And if it’s feels good, it’s not manipulation
The back of his neck
If you feel close to that man, this technique is a very warm and safe one. All you have to do is to lay the palm of your hand on the back of his neck. The idea is to create even more tenderness in your relation: you are not that far for the sexy kiss here.
You can do the back of his neck touch when you are going to tell him a “secret”. But I remember a colleague who used that technique on me as she passed by behind me. She did know that it was a safe move at that moment.
Oh yeah, the ears…
If you feel even closer to that man use the ear touch: Run your finger underneath his earlobe. That move must be sweet and sexy. It doesn’t have to be longer than one second. Of course here I’m talking about a technique that you can use everywhere even at your office. It’s sexy, discrete and it means:
“Hey, handsome I really like you”.
Of course in more intimate moment, you can use your lips but that technique is openly sexual so this is not the subject of this article.
Mix the pleasure of touch and the pleasure of eyes
“Seduce my mind and you can have my body”. Anonymous
As a conclusion, ask yourself that question:
“Why stop here?”
You can mix the pleasure of the touch and the pleasure of the eyes. For instance, you are walking on his side, slow down. Put the palm of your hand on his shoulder and slowly put half of your foot out of your shoe like if you were trying to do some adjustment.
Make that scene sexy. Let him see your heel. For sure, he will take a peek on your foot. Hum…
You know how to play with us, ladies.
Now, go and find your amazing man.