In this article, you will understand why you still can find a man after 50. You can fall in love, and get married again (or for the first time) no matter how old you are. Time is not against you. In fact, very soon, you will realize that it can be your best weapon. If you use it well…
What is age
Anyway, what is that number that we call age?
It just a reference and nothing more.
Yes… people around make a big deal about that number. Just like you do, probably.
But here, I will invite you to see age in a completely different point of view. This new conception will help you to build the confidence you need to find and seduce the perfect man for you.
Together, we are going to scrap the general idea of age, experience and elders.
We are going to focus on you.
Age cannot stop you to find the love of your life. Here’s why
Here is a way to see the number that is supposed to represent your age. The bigger is that number, the more it means that there is something that you will have to understand.
See it like a pressure system to get things done.
But what exactly?
That being is not only better than having: Being will help you get what you really want.
When you understand that principle, you will start to put all the wisdom your age has to offer to your profit. And you will find not only love. You will see men will in line waiting to meet you.
Here’s a real story to illustrate my point.
Beauty and charm
I remember 5 years ago, I was walking in a park. I had a meeting at the faculty of music of the University of Montreal, but I wasn’t in a hurry. I still had time. So why not enjoy the sun?
That’s when I crossed that old lady
She was in her late 80s for sure; her assisting person was in her 60s.
The old woman was wearing a beautiful white dress and a large hat to protect her from the sun. So classy and old style at the same.
Her jewels were shining.
But not as shining as her smile when she saw me.
I had to stop walking. I turned and said.
“Lady, you are so beautiful”
She smiled again but said nothing. She didn’t have to. Her smile was saying:
“Thank you, young man. It’s very sweet of you. But I already know that I look great. And you are kind of cute too….”
The charm, the elegance that old woman had!
See that’s the first lesson that age teaches- if you listen.
Charm, elegance is what you are, not what you have. It comes with the image you have about yourself, the feeling you get as you observe your own existence.
You will never lose charm and elegance if you understand that principle. Once you build it, they are part of your DNA.
Youth is for a short time. External beauty is a convention: different era, different standards of beauty.
But charm and elegance are forever.
A 22 years old beauty will not understand that truth. Every day, men look at her; She has their attention. Her appearance is seem to be enough to seduce.
She will not think about how it’s important to feel great inside to shine outside.
But now, you know better.
Your plan is to boost your well-being. The way you work on your natural charm is vital for your love life. Here’s why…
What men after 50 love the most in women
Men are deeper than you think. Here is a little list of qualities most men in their 50s look in a woman.
- Sense of humor
- Easy going
- Down to earth
Have you noticed how many of those qualities have something to do with happiness?
As a matter of fact, studies have revealed a great truth: After 50 years old, people who are successful in their love life are those who are happy about themselves. They have fun dating; they attract people to them. Those men and women have fun, are smiling, are relaxed. They have a natural sense of humor. They are fun to be around.
When you feel great about yourself, you don’t feel the urge to impress people. You are down to earth. Men will notice that great vibration that radiates around you.
Bottom line, to get a man, you need a bait.
And your secret weapon is to amplify that great feeling inside to the point that you become irresistible.
A full life and the place where you can find him.
I guess that you have already heard about the necessity to go out and see more people to find a new man.
I will not talk about that strategy today- even if that plan is effective to a certain point.
I will suggest you to focus on the activities that you love to do. Don’t go somewhere just because you have heard that there will be a lot of people.
It’s time you to dedicate yourself to create a pleasant life. Your great life will attract the husband that is compatible with your vibration.
Here is a suggestion to find thousand of activity where you can not only have the chance to practice your hobby but meet new man at the same time.
Where to have fun and find men after 50
I could give you a top 5 type of list but I will not. I will give you only one place to go.
This site is awesome. You can find group of all ages to practice your favorite hobby.
I like the fact that you can easily join a meetup if you want to try something new.
All you have to do is to find a community in your city where men and women share the same passion.
In conclusion, you have the chance to change your vibration once for all. Your age is a wake up call. The best weapon you have his your well being to attract men and people in general.
With age, the beauty of youth is less and less a distraction. The truth becomes more and more obvious.
You have a unique opportunity to look like you how feel inside.
Men will notice it. One way or the other.
Now go and find an amazing man