I see you like a friend. So let me tell you this: it’s doesn’t matter how old you are. Love is something that you deserve, something that you can offer to another.
As you read this article, you will understand why you still can find a man after 50, be in love, and finally get married again (or for the first time). Time is not against you. More than ever, now is an era when you can say.
“Time is on my side”- The Rolling stone.
Anyway, what is this number that we call age?
First, you can say that it’s only a number.
“Yes… but people around make a big deal about that number…”
I hear you… but remember, here in this article we are going to talk about your success in love, your well-being and not on how the society thinks.
We are going to focus on you.
Deal?
Now here is a way to see the number that is supposed to represent your age. The bigger is that number, the more it means that there is something that you will have to understand.
Enough baloney, Time out for playing the truth.
But to understand what exactly?
To understand that being is not only better than having: It will help you get what you really want.
When you understand that principle, you put all this wisdom that age has to offer to your profit. And you will find not only love. But many men will put themselves in line to talk to you.
No matter how old you are.
Here an example.
Beauty and charm
I remember 5 years ago, I was walking in a park. Even if I had a meeting at the faculty of music of the University of Montreal, I wasn’t in a hurry. I still had time. So why not enjoy that beautiful sun?
That’s when I crossed that old lady
Wow!
She was in her late 80s that’s for sure; her assisting person what in her 60s.
The old woman was wearing a beautiful white dress and a large hat to protect her for the sun. So classy and old style at the same.
Her jewels were shining under the sun.
But not as shining as her smile when she was me.
I had to stop walking.
I turn around and said.
“Lady, you are so beautiful”
She smiled again but said nothing. She didn’t have to. Her smile was saying:
“Thank you, young man. It’s very sweet of you. But I know that I look great. And you are kind of cute too….”
The charm, the elegance that old woman had.
See that’s the first lesson that old age gives. Charm, elegance is what you are. You get if and it’s will stay forever. It will be part of your DNA. It’s how you shine from the inside.
Youth is for a short time. External beauty is something that our society has decided.
A 22 years old beauty will not think about that. Men look at her. She has their attention. What she has is just enough. She will not think about how it’s important to feel great inside to shine outside.
But now, you know better.
How you feel about yourself, how much fun you have in your life, how you work on your natural charm is vital for your love life. Here’s why.
What men after 50 love most in women
If you answer, a woman that looks like a model, I will answer… well yes for many of those guys. But, surprisingly, men are deeper than that. Here is a little list of qualities most men in their 50 look and a woman.
- Fun
- Honest
- Relationship
- Laugh
- Loving
- Sense of humor
- Happy
- Caring
- Kind
- Open
- Smile
- Intelligent
- Active
- Easy going
- Down to earth
Have you noticed how many of those qualities have something to do with happiness?
So no doubt: As you start to look for a man you will have to work of well-being.
As a matter of fact, studies have shown that people after 50 who are successful in their love life are those who are happy about themselves. They have fun dating and attract people to them. People how have fun are smiling, relaxed. They have a natural sense of humor. They are fun to be around. .
When you feel great about yourself, you don’t feel the urge to impress people. You are down to earth. Men feel that you care about them, that you are open.
For instance, you are ready to explore, to meet men that are usually not your type of men.
Bottom line, you are what men love in a woman.
Being is what will give you what you really want.
A full life
I guess that you have already heard about the necessity to go out and see more people.
Right?
So, even if that’s true, I will not talk much about that. But will just says that doing what you love the most is that corner stone of happiness. Decide to have a fantastic live. If a cause is important for you, go and get involved. Help because you love to help; not because you have to.
You have the chance to change your vibration once for all. The beauty of youth is less and less a distraction. You can take care of yourself and start to shine from the inside.
And men will notice it.
Without even noticing it, you start the seduction game with a home run.
Here are the best fields where you can be at your best in the love game.
Find a quality man today
I could give you a usual list of top 5.
But I will not.
I will tell you where is the best place to start meet great man in their 50s or even older.
Meetup.com. This site is just awesome. You can easily tie your favorite hobby and romance. It doesn’t matter you like the most to do to have fun. You can find on Meetup.com a community in your city where people want to share the passion you have. And in that group, you will find interesting men.
Believe that you are a special woman.
Decide to let men discover how fascinating you are
Now go and find an amazing man
Love.
Jo Fontaine
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