Look at yourself in a mirror. How can you make a great first impression when you meet a man? Well give yourself a look again. You know that you have so much to give to a man, right? But do you feel it? Sure, maybe there are some part of your body that you would like to change (it’s true for everybody, even for men). But it’s not always possible. You will have to make his knees weak with what you already have.
Now tell me. Can you hear that little voice inside of you saying that there’s something missing? Yes, it’s not there but you feel that it’s not that far. That’s the reason why you think that you have so many problems to find a man that is perfect for you.
But realize that that thing missing is already inside you. All you have to do is to find id and to express it. This is true for everybody on planet earth. So everybody has a chance. Lucky you!
Personality is the key.
You try to avoid her. Fate is in your hands. She’s smiling an invitation to dance. Her heart is on the street, tu Corazon es suyo. Now you’ve falling at her feet. You try to get away but you can’t. –Who’s that girl-Madonna
Yes, the personality is the key to find the boyfriend you are dreaming of. Hey! It happens that you have one. You already know that a perfect boyfriend is somebody who fits perfectly with your personality. But how can you make sure that you have the best impact on the man you meet at your job, on the street, waiting the bus, or at the supermarket? Here, I will talk about that aspect of your personality that you can push forward to make men ask themselves
“Who’s that girl?”
Make him ask this question and one way or another, he’s trapped. You have an apartment in this head. The next step will be to make all the other female tenants leave the place!
I will not talk that much about the physical stuff… You know, smile, eyes contact, and about standing tall… You always know that, right? I just want to have so fun and talk to you about some sweet stuff that will help you make remember to use those techniques when you meet a man. It’s just difficult is to remember to act, move the right way. They say:
“Fake it until you have it”
Yes, it’s true. But sometimes, it’s not that easy to do. Here are some practical ideas to help you physically and mentally so you will start to act like the warm, confident woman that you are in fact. All that without even thinking too much about it!
Relax and have fun.
I just want to tell you this, lady: body language is the fastest way to make to wow a man. The good news is that it pretty simple to have the right moves (relax, sweet, confident). All you have to do is to take care of yourself!
Get that confident, sexy, relaxed look and you will make a killer impression.
There are two easy ways to look like a strong and sexy woman in a few weeks (even if you don’t feel like that, mentally, your body will do the job).
Yoga and Pilates
Those two types of training will not only get you in shape. They will start to shift the way you think about your body. Now you have heard of those two activities. But what about Yoga-Pilates (you do a mixed routine in the same session). My sister told me that it makes wonder. You will feel a change in your body and in your mind in a couple of weeks (if you are not too skeptical, in a few days). I was so impressed by what she said that I want to try this too.
The moves are not too complicated, so you can practice them at home without hurting yourself. You will notice that you start to move differently. For instance, my sister has a more relaxed body language when she walks, now. If there is one ingredient that you want to have to seduce, it’s this one: a body that says: “I feel great inside and I’m in control”. You can find wonderful ideas that will make you feel great inside so look strong, sexy and confident. Read the review Get A Great Guy Guide).
I ain’t perfect. Cool…
Pleasure in the job makes perfection the work– Aristotle.
Something else can stop you from giving the best impression you can. It’s that darn fear. That fear of not being perfect. Man! That crap makes our life a real mess…
You want to look just perfect, act exactly like you plan when you meet a man. But life is full of surprised (I always have the tendency to say that life has a sense of humor -sometime a good one, sometimes a bad one). But deep inside you just know that it’s not possible to be perfect. At least, not like that. Something will go wrong or will look out of place. Sometimes, the timing will be weird. You will say something a stupid. But you know what? It’s the way you will react that counts. Your reaction will show your personality, your relaxed and sweet attitude, your confidence. This will be your moment to shine! Thinks about Jennifer Lawrence when she was surprised by one of her idol (see her. it’s so funny).
So there’s a rock in the shoes, like the old Italian says? Something happened that you have no foreseen? Good for you!
Show how wonderful you are by the way to react to what’s appending. And then, surprise! You become the perfect woman that you can be: a woman who accepts the ways she is, the way things happen. Doing that sweet job to be the best-you and having fun doing it is what perfection is all about. Be the perfect you.
A man can’t help it. He will notice how vibrant you are. Will he fall in love with you? Not necessarily. Some might think that you are too good for them and might get frustrated. But this is another story…
The “So what” mentality
Now, you already know that I’m a musician. I’m a miles Davis fan since I’m a teen. This is why I started to wear hats (my friend think that it’s because I love Michael Jackson). Miles was a genius. He changed the history of music. And he has done it twice! He used to have an arrogant attitude when he heard something he didn’t like. Then he would said, with his broken voice:
This mentality will help you to become that strong, sexy and confident woman you can be. It will shape your body language, the way you look at men in the eyes. It will change the way you smile. Use that technique to remove your fear. You will then find different ways to show your sensuality. It’s easier to be sexy when your body and your mind are relaxed. So here are some examples of how and when you can use that Miles Davis’ technique.
Tell me. What happens if the date doesn’t go that well? Let’s say the guy is a complete mess?
“SO WHAT? Too bad for him! I deserve better”.
But what if you acted stupid with that guy. He was so kind and you blew it?
“SO WHAT? Sometimes, I will blow my chances. I have the right to make mistakes, no? Let’s find out if I can fix things up. If I can’t, then it’s OK. I’m responsible. I will do better next time.”
Gosh! That man has no respect for successful women. You talked about your dreams and the only thing he has done was to try to pull you down.
“SO WHAT? He’s jealous. I have no time to spend with losers.”
Do you have other idea to show and express confidence? Well, don’t be shy, girl, and share your idea with us.
Now go and find your amazing man
P.S. “I got a brand new attitude and I’m gonna wear it tonight”Fin– Pink- So what.