Use those sexy tips and you will not say “will I ever a boyfriend” anymore. It means that you can be one of those girls who know how to get the man they want. Sure you can can have the power, that knowledge to attract a man, to make him like you. Oh, he will have no clue of what happened. But how cares? He will be happy.
It’s time to tap in that mighty power: Introducing the art of flirting without really flirting.
“What you seek is seeking you” – Jalaluddin Mevlana Rumi
How men think
Men just love sexy women. The good news for you is that being sexy is more an attitude than physical quality. Think about those actresses that people usually consider sexy. Try not to think about the makeup, the expensive clothes. You will see that most of those stars look just like the girl next door.
The difference is all in the attitude.
Men love it.
Now, what do I mean when I say attitude?
Keep reading and you will know, lady!
How to flirt with a guy
The attitude starts with the idea of flirting. Do you know that flirting is scary for most guys. I have heard about a soldier how was a hero in Irak but just couldn’t talk to a woman in a bar! Now what can you do to have the right sexy attitude without looking to provocating. Well you can use the negative flirt technique.
You just open the door!
You see, guys (and especially good guys) think twice before trying to flirt with women. Open the door and you will attract men faster
What do I mean by that? Let him know that you are warm and approachable. Use those following tips and you will make him understand that you are a sweet girl who wouldn’t mind to flirt a bit. Once they get it, many of those guys will warm up and start flirting with you. It will look like a cute game.
Cute, coy, and smiles
Ok here, I will say it simple and directly. If you have that attitude, you will have to bury it. I’m talking about that arrogant, rude, distant attitude. I know, you don’t want to be annoyed by jerks with no manners. But the problem is that the good guys see the way you answer to men.
And finally, they prefer to keep their distance.
Guys love smiling positive and happy ladies. For men, a woman is what life should be all about: Freshness, positivity. But what about strong women? There is no problem. In fact, guys love elegant strength: life is always going forward. It never looks back.
You will not hear men say those things that much (maybe expect in love songs). But between the lines you will understand how important this aspect is important for them. Many guys don’t even realize that this is what they are really looking for.
Freshness, positivity, elegance. Feed that need and you will see men turning all around you.
It’s Raining Men! Hallelujah! – It’s Raining Men! Amen!
I’m gonna go out to run and let myself get
Absolutely soaking wet!
It’s raining men-The weather girls.
You want to make sure that this hunk notice you? One of the most powerful technique is to pretend to act like you are shy, but in a cute way. To do that, smile so you look like you try to hide your “shyness”. Here’s a great example: In that video bellow, Marilyn Monroe speaks to the press. That actress can teach you a lot about the art of being cute. That interview is great because she is more natural than usually in front of the camera. Look how she smiles, how she look at the journalists. It seems that she is flirting with everybody. Even the women. You can feel that she is shy, vulnerable. But at the same time, she looks at people right in the eyes.
Yes, there is some strength in that woman.
Pay attention to her gesture and try to integrate them in your day to day encounter. Adapt them to your personality and make men fall in love with you wherever you go (to read more about coy and the shyness game, read the article 5 tips to find a boyfriend).
“Imperfection is beauty” -Marilyn Monroe
Just like Marilyn, use your eyes to communicate. You will create some magic around you. The man that you like will feel something inside guarantee. He will ask himself:
“OK, what’s going on? Is there something she wants to say to me? Why do I feel this way? Maybe she in love with me…”
If he’s shy, maybe you will see him a bit confused. If he likes you, he will be even more. But know that if you show that you are happy to be near him using your sweet smile, he will totally be weak on his needs.
Love is a dangerous game, mister!
“Your love is like bad medicine. Bad medicine is what I need”- Bon Jovi
“I like this” and “Thank you”
“Thank you” is indeed a magic word. But an image is just like a thousand words. If a man has been courteous or generous with you, use your warm smile. Your attitude will make him want to please you even more. He will start to warm up and even start to flirt with you. Now, remember. You do not want to look needy. You are a woman who should be well treated in the first place. It’s just that when a man acts the right way, he will be well-paid: with your sweet and warm “thank you”. That’s how the game works.
Another great word is: “I like this”. Guys just love compliments. Compliments are one of the corner-stone of flirting. If you like something in a man, do not hide it. Say it.
And at the same time you open the door to a flirty conversation with him…
Please, take your time to practice your best movements in front of a mirror. Work on your expressions. How do you use your eyes and your facial expressions? How do you show that happy expression?
It seems to be a lot of work.
Practice only a few minutes every day and those expressions will become more and more natural. They will transform you in a man magnet.
Watch how Nigella Lawson uses her body language. Just like Marilyn Monroe, that woman is a great teacher. Look how she uses her feminine gesture to seduce the camera. We just want to see her, to listen to what she has to say.
Guys feel great because you are around. They miss you when you are not at the office.
Practice and, one day, you will notice that you do not need to talk to a man to make him want you. Your attitude will do all the magic.
Talking about pure communication without words!
Now, go and find your amazing man!
P.S: have fun with guys. Be sweet with them. But tease them a little at the right moment.
P.S.S: man, looks like all my life, have been around women gently teasing me… But hey! I look for it. I do the same…
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