In this article, I will talk about 5 signs that will tell you that a man really likes you and that, no doubt, he’s the right guy for you.
Now, are those signals for real? I mean, can you really find signs that a man is perfect for you? Yes! They are some indicators that will flash and tell you this.
“Girl, this guy, hummmm… Pay attention. He may be the one”.
When you hear that bell ringing, lady, do something it. Don’t let that man go away!
So here are the 5 signs.
You’re so sweet!
“I just call to say I much I care” -I just call to say I love you- Stevie wonder
I talked about in the article how to get a man to fall in love with you. A man will love it when you bring the best out of him. You can help him to realize his dreams. Sometimes, you even believe more in himself that he does. This is what a woman does when she’s in love (at least, in my experience).
A man will notice that you are on his side. If he feels that he can do even more things when you are around, I can assure you that you are that close to be the only one in his heart. Now you say:
But how about me?
I just want to ask you this question: do you share your dreams, talk about your passions? Does he have a clue about your goals?
If yes, how does he react?
Replay the movie in your head. Think about his face expression. Does he want to learn more about your passion? Maybe he has some ideas to help you reach your goal.
Now think about the last time you are in doubt in a project. Does he encourage you to go ahead? Is he supportive?
You have a sign of you that this man cares about you if you answer “yes” to any of those questions.
Of course, you will not have clear ideas of this signal at the first date. But a sign that a man really likes you is that he will try to know more about your dreams. He will do his best to make you feel better when you are down.
That person may be the one you are looking for.
Just remember that men are different. Most of us are not as proactive to help as you do, ladies (at least not, at the beginning of the relation). Anyway, if he really cares, he will at least show his interest when you share your thoughts, your dreams. Maybe he will even make some suggestions.
How did you know?
“Sometimes, the heart sees what is invisible to the eye” – H Jackson Brown Jr.
Here’s another good sign is he likes you and that he may be right guy for you. You have the impression that he sees and feels something even if you don’t say anything. When it happens, you know that there’s something wonderful that is going on.
Let’s say that you are about to get sick in the office. But you are a tough girl, right? You don’t want to leave until your job is done. You don’t want anybody to notice that you are in a bad shape. Ans here’s, that cute guy you like so much. He passes near your desk, hesitates, stops and walks back. He looks at you a bit concerned and say:
“Hey, are you alright?”
This guy has some empathy. Does it mean that he’s in love? Not necessarily.
But add this signal to the one above and the next one and you will know that he really likes you. He seems to have what it takes to be your perfect boyfriend.
Hummm. It feels so good.
“There is a kind of serenity in love which is almost a paradise”- Alain Badiou
Here I will talk about how you feel when you are near him. Tell me: How do you feel when he’s near you? Do you feel great, relaxed? Do you feel like you are breathing some fresh air? Do you feel that, suddenly, everything is going to be OK? If your answer is yes, wonderful! Add this wonderful feeling to the two precedent signs above and you can almost say that your man is doing “his job” without even thinking about it. He supports you.
No doubt, he could be the right man for you…
She’s just fine like that
“I took the good time. I’ll take the bad time. I’ll take you just the way you are.” Just the way you are- Billy Joel
Yeah, Women love that song. It’s a classic.
I’m pretty sure that you already have a good idea of my point.
You will notice this sign after a few dates. Some parts of your personality (that you would prefer to hide) will slip out of your hands. How does he react? Do you feel judged? If you feel that you are living a love story in a free judgment zone, you may have found not only a man who likes you by you have right in front of you a person that could be “the right one”.
In another article, I’ve talked about perfection in relationship. Perfection has all to do with acceptance in relationship. The more your man will know you, the more you will know if he’s the right one for you. He will know more your weaknesses, your fears. Does he still have strong feelings for you, regardless of those flaws? In other words, do you feel that he says:
“I know that she’s like that. It’s OK, I can deal with that. But wow! I just love that woman”.
Yes, here we are not talking about liking someone. We are talking about love.
My life is just fine. With you, it’s even better!
This sign comes with the first point we talked about (is he interested in what you like? Does he show some interest when you share your dreams with him?). You already know that having a great life is up to you; this is the golden rule (click here to read more about that golden rule). Here, ask yourself this question:
“Do I feel that he adds more positiveness in my life?”
If your answer is yes, you may have a winning ticket.
Take your time to observe each of those signals. Some signs will show themselves slowly. Others will pop out right in your face. Remember that both good and bad signs are what you are looking for: what you want to know is if that guy likes you and if he could be the perfect guy for you.
Do you have a question or do you have any other positives signs that come to your mind? Don’t be shy. Share your comments with us!
Now go, lady. And find your amazing man!