Jo Fontaine | The Right Husband

How To Find The Right Man Using The Power Of Synergy.

“You can’t lose at love” You can’t lose at love – Jon Jovi

After an hour of discussion about how to find the right man, here’s my cousin who has a great flash. I ‘m still surprised about that brilliant idea. This is the great tool that I want to share with you today. It can change your life. So it all starts with that horrible feeling that stings you when you think that you are the only one who has not found a man yet. I want to show you how and why that technique might be very useful for you.

You are not alone

Imagine. You find yourself in a house party. The music is loud. The house is full packed of friends, friend of friends and colleagues. But it seems that, finally, you don’t know haft of the people here. Those new faces are men and women that are invited. You suddenly realize that there are a lot of couples.

Now you feel more alone than ever

The thing is that you are not alone. In your city, they are thousands of men and women who are looking for their perfect love partner. The problem is that everybody is looking on their own side.

All for one

“All for one, one for all- that is our motto, is it not?” The three musketeers Alexandre Dumas

Take a look around you the next time you go in a park. You know when the sun is warm and the birds are chirping? There is a good chance that you observe a group of mother who are talking, sited on a public bank. Around them, there are half a dozen of pushchairs. What are those ladies doing? It seems that they like to get together once or twice a week just to talk. Well, this is exactly what they do.

When they meet, those mothers talk about their joy of being a mother. They talk about their difficulties; they give each other some encouragement. That woman has a great solution. That lady has discovered a new product; she shares the information with the others. In other words, those mothers use the power of synergy to overcome any difficult situations, to become better moms.

But this power of synergy seems to be rarely
used by singles. Time to change that, don’t you think?

The power of synergy

OK, so what is synergy? There is synergy when you take two components and mixed them. The effect you observe is more than if you take the action of the two components and add them. Let’s take a simple example. You like to go to the gym. Your friend too. But you always go on your side, alone. One day, your friend invites you to go with her. A magic happens. Never would you have thought that training could be that fun. I mean, hey! you feel even more motivated. You train harder. You start to feel the positive effect of that new way to stay in shape. This is the power of synergy.

Here is another example. Just think about dancing. Dancing alone is OK. But when you are two, hum…

You surely can use that power of synergy when are looking to find the man of your life. Your goal will be to find men and women who are looking for a love partner; people who dream to start a family. You want to start a group that will be able to create positive energy for every member. You will help each other just like the new moms do when they meet.

Recently, I have made some research. I wanted to support groups organized by single person. Not a great success… Unfortunately, most of the so call social groups of singles are created by event organizer. But wait! Do not despair if you have problem to find support groups for singles in your area. If you can join a gang, you always can create your own.

Your own crew

Time to be a gangsta! Better: you will be the Original One. The benefits of creating your own group are:

You control the quality of your group. You decide who will be the members.
You decide what will be the rules of your group
You don’t have to wait to create a meeting. You call the shots.

How can you create your group? First, write the rules of your group. I would suggest that you write that your group is not a dumpster where everybody will throw his/her frustration. That group, the members will be there to help each other in difficult moment. Everybody will have to share their experience, their new ideas to find quality men, and women. In other words, the members must have a kind of positive state of mind even if it’s difficult to be alone. Now, there are a few places where you can find members for your group.

Remember: your group is not a dumpster

#1 Craigslist

This site has been there for a while. For you, ladies, who have no idea of what I’m talking about, think of Craigslist as a kind of classified ads section in a newspaper. This site is very popular and many people have started their groups and businesses posting ads on craigslist. I’m one of them. The problem is that many weird people crawl on this site. Prepare yourself to receive some idiotic messages. Write a kind of questionnaire that you will send to those who are interested. You want to select the men and women who merit your time. Oh, by the way: you don’t have to give your personal information right away. Talk a little on the platform.

#2 Facebook page

Well, it will be harder to start a group with Facebook. At least for free. But if can spend a few dollars every month, you will, for sure, create a solid group. Here, your goal will be to create a Facebook page and then put some ads on Facebook. Only the people that you target will be able to see your ads. Now, running an ad on Facebook is not free but it’s not that expensive either. I will not explain how to run ads but click here to watch a tutorial that will explain how to do it.

#3 meetup group

This technique is the fastest solution to create a group. But it’s the most expensive too. Start a group on meetup.com and in you will see some reaction in a few of days. You will see notices that say that people are interested to be part of your group. Just realize that all the members of your group will not necessarily come when you organize a meetup. That’s the problem with meetup.com. People there are kind of fickle…

Conclusion

Create your own group is maybe the best solution if you feel that you need some support, some positive vibes. Do not be ashamed to use that idea. Anyway, a lot of event organizers have started their dating business because they could not find a man or a woman. Enough said!

Now you know that you need to become a gangsta
lady, right?

Go create your crew and find your amazing man!

Love,

Jo Fontaine

XOXO

How To Find A Quality Man

Couple and relationship, Dating

The problem

Here is Anna. She’s rolling her eyes and sits on my couch.

“Why is that so difficult to find a quality man”, she asks.

Woah! What do you want me to answer to that question? For a moment I just stay there, silent: a man of experience knows when he has to keep his mouth shut…

Here what happens. Anna is not a top model; but she’s kind a cute. Like I said in the article How to find the perfect mate being cute is more than enough to attract men. So this is not her problem.

“I don’t know why but the men I date are always dull. Or they seem to have no idea of where they are going. I just want to find a man who has a little ambition, a dream. Someone I can see myself with to start a family…”

Can you see yourself in Anna? If you do, maybe you are making the same mistakes Anna does. In this article, we will talk about those faux pas and how you can correct them. So here we go, lady!

Problem #1: fear to be alone

That one is a classic. Realize now how fear can ruin your love life. I understand that you are sick and tired to be alone. You see more and more people around you get married having babies and you start to feel like a complete loser. So maybe you react this way: you do your best to date more. You try go to every singles party event in your city.

Or maybe you have this reaction: you completely stop dating.

In her article 5 Reasons why you keep attracting the wrong men, the author (call her by her little name: Manalitta) says that nothing can hurt you more than a needy attitude. She’s right. Take a hard look at the way you behave.

One sign you are too needy is that you assist to so many events for singles that you start to neglect your friends. You can’t see your best friend this Saturday: there’s a speed dating event at 8 Pm. Most quality men have a kind of 6^th sense: the sense that let them spot women who are too needy for their taste. They want to stay out of trouble.

Another sign is that you keep dating men who at do not respect you: they are always late; they say comments about your clothes, your makeup or on anything just to lower you.

Now, I have something very important to tell you: most quality men have a kind of 6^th sense: they can spot needy women in a second. When it happens, they run away: they want to stay out of trouble.

The solution is to go and have fun with your friends and your family. You are not losing your time. Think about it this way: you are recharging your batteries. Go get that energy that will charm the next sweet man you will meet.

Lady, get rid of that fear to be alone. It’s not good for you and it’s not good for the good man you will meet. Sometimes you will even hear a little voice in your head that says: “I need a break”. Listen to that voice. To stop dating for a moment may be the right decision to take (but a moment).

Problem #2 you do not exactly know what you want.

One of the reasons you can’t find a quality man is that you don’t know exactly what you are looking for.

Now you already know that I’m not a fan of the famous (some people would say the infamous) long, long list that women tend to have. But here comes the relationship expert Jordan Gray. In his article how to find and date an exceptionally high quality partner, he suggests that you write a list of traits you would like to find in your partner. Jordan Gray explains how to use that classic technique. He just adds a new twist. Many of the traits examples he gives in his article are not mandatory. Here’s what he suggests: put on paper your preferences, the things you will enjoy most in a partner. For instance, maybe you want a man who loves Metal or classical music just like you; someone who likes to eat simple food. Nothing fancy.

Let’s say it another way. Most women will write in their list:

“I want a man who’s respectful, sweet and faithful…”

Those traits are important. But they are general. You need to create in your mind a more precise image of the men you are looking for. Write 10 to 25 characteristics that you would like to see in your man. Keep in mind that you are looking for a certain kind of compatibility. We have already talked about the importance of this quality. Your couple will need it to stay strong and in health (more about that in the article talking about the movie Julie and Julia).

Problem #3: you don’t know where to look

A lot of bloggers say that you can find good men everywhere. It’s true. But, like I said just above, you will have to think about compatibility. For instance, my sister cannot see herself with a man who has no interest at all in arts. Oh, he doesn’t have to be an artist like her. But no interest at all? No way!

So where could a cultivated lady go to find a love partner?

Bars located in museums or in theaters. More and more museum and the theater have bars now.
An exhibition opening (vernissage)
A concert

Another option is to use Meetup.com and find some meetups in your city that offer gathering for people with the same interest.

Now let’s say that you want to find a successful man. Where are they? It’s a cliché but it’s true: a lot of rich men like to play golf, squash and tennis. How about joining a club? What? You don’t know how to play? Time to take some golf lessons!

You don’t like sports at all? Well, you can find successful men in bars. All you have to do is to find the places where successful men like to go. Ask people who are well aware of the nightlife in your area. They know the clubs where rich young men like to meet.

Problem #4: you are trying to play in a league that’s way above you.

This problem is not easy to hear. If you are expecting a perfect man with no flaws at all, you better be perfect too. You will not get anywhere if you can’t offer something in return. Sure, you want a man who doesn’t lie to you. But are you a liar (by the say, hiding is lying in many cases)? You want a man who listens. Excellent! But do you do all the talking?

Realize that you neeed to know what a perfect love partner is. If you don’t it will hurt the love life.

Don’t try to play in a league that’s way above you. Expect something that you can give in return. A lot of men will appreciate that honesty. They will trust you.

Conclusion

To conclude this article, I will give you some homework. Revise your list of traits your man should have. Try not to describe the perfect man (with all the qualities in the word). If you have not stopped, go out and have fun with your friends and your family. In this society, a lot of men and women tend to neglect people they care about because they are too obsessed by with a goal they have in their mind. Do not fall in that trap: a woman who has a satisfying life is sexy.

We, men, l-o-v-e happy women.

Now that you know your type of man, find the place where he will most likely spend his time.

Do you have any question? Any comments? Share your thoughts in the little white box below. We will be more than happy to read you.

Now you know how to find a quality man.

Go and get that amazing man!

Love,

Jo Fontaine.

XOXO

How to find your perfect boyfriend – do not miss that first step!

Couple and relationship, Dating

Listen. Sure, do you want to find the perfect boyfriend, you perfect husband. But you will have to start your research by answering this important question: do you know what perfection is?

“Yes Jo, you say. I already know what perfection is. That’s why I’m looking for a perfect boyfriend”

Wait a second, lady! Prepare yourself to have a surprise! After that article is read, I guarantee that you will have a new idea of the type of men you are looking. You will you know exactly what perfection is all about in a relationship. You will have made the first step to find your perfect boyfriend. Let’s start!

“A journey of a thousand step begins with a single step”- Confucius

A little talk about love and perfection

“You drive me with perfection” Cher– Perfection

Say those two words in your head: men, perfection. What image man comes in your mind? I pretty sure that the first one will have to do with his look; maybe his warm smile. Now, a movie in your head starts. What is it? You think about the way he treats you, the way he behaves.

You know what? It’s normal.

Those pictures are your desires in images. They are your dreams. It’s your ego speaking. Please notice that on this site, I will rarely talk about the ego in negative way. So I’m not judging you for having desires and dreams. We all have. Just realize that your ego is working right now.

But, here is the thing: in a relationship, you are not alone. A couple is you plus someone else.

Let’s say it bluntly: perfect for you is not necessarily perfect for your future couple. Let’s take an example. You want a man who listens to you. Fine. In my article talking the movie Julie and Julia, I describe 2 men. One day, they decide to refuse to listen to their wives. Oh, they loved their ladies! They just can’t accept what is going on in their couple. This example, here, is to show you that you may need a man who will be able to stop listening to you and will not be scared to kick your sweet behind when it’s time: sometime we need some help to get back on our feet and continue to pursue our dreams.

Now you start to feel the difference between what you think is perfection in a man and what is perfect for you couple.

The perfect boyfriend: the definition

So what is a perfect boyfriend? It’s a man who creates a perfect love team with you. See a couple like a softball team. You may have the best pitcher; your team will go nowhere if you don’t have all the ingredients necessary to win the trophy. Some players are lousy in defense; but they are the best hitter you can find. Your couple is just like a team. He may have some flaws that you can compensate with your abilities. And vice versa…

The secret to know if he’s the perfect man for you.

Here we are. We are about to find out the secret ingredient that make a guy perfect for you.

I have said that you need to see your couple as a “love team”. For sure, you have some flaws as a player (we all have). Now, here is that cute guy coming. He’s able notices after a couple of dates your weaknesses. In fact, he sees more your qualities. He’s willing to have you as a love partner. Why? Because he says in his head:

“I know about her flaws. Nobody’s perfect. I know about those troubles I will get in. It doesn’t matter: I have what it takes to deal with that. Anyway, she’s so incredible.”

The man with that attitude is the perfect one for you. Don’t let him go: you may have a serious candidate to be titled as “the perfect man of my life”.

But a last ingredient to the perfect recipe, thought…

What about his weaknesses? Are you will to accept them? Are his qualities so lovable that you can easily deal with his bad habits, his insecurities? If your answer is “yes”, it means that you are about to build a perfect love team.

Remember. A perfect man does not exist without a perfect woman and vice versa. In a couple, both exist because they are perfect for each other.

Conclusion

The conclusion of this article is this: in relationship, perfection is not all about your personal dreams and ego. It’s about the quality of your couple. It about how well the pieces fit together. At this moment, you will realize that this is what you have always wanted. Now, a perfect man for you will never exist if you can’t the perfect woman for him. A perfect man is a man who’s creates a great “love team” with you. A perfect love team is created when both have what it takes to deal with the weakness of the other. Anyway, the qualities of the loved one are so incredible!

Do you have any question? Any comment? Please write them in the little white box below.

Now you know what perfection is all about.

Go, lady! Find your amazing man!

Love,

Jo Fontaine.

XOXO

P.S. You know what, words are well crafted. Take the word perfection, for instance. It comes from the Latin word perfectio. That word means something like “completely achieved”. It means that something was in a process at first. Something is about to be created. What is it? In your case, it’s your couple. So, a perfect couple would be a “love team” that is completely achieved.

P.S.S What? You have not seen Julie and Julia yet! Click here to see the trailer.

How to find your man with your eyes closed

Dating

Here’s something new

“Jo, I was in an amazing meetup last evening”.

I raise an eyebrow. The lady talking to me is Helena. She’s a sweet 36 years old lady. Like a lot of women of her age, she is looking for the man of her life. Now I have to tell you this: Helena is someone who never exaggerates. Well almost never…

“What is it, I ask after a second”?

“Well, its call Mingle In The Dark. I think it’s going to be the next big thing. I mean, if it’s not a success right now, it will happen very soon!”

Imagine how intrigued I am. I feel almost hypnotized by what she says. I just want to learn more.

“So what is Mingle In The Dark, I ask”?

“See, this kind of evening is like a blind date event. I mean literally. The host joints you when you come near the door to get in the room. She puts a mask on your face so you can’t see a thing. Then, the host guides you in the room so you can find the place that has been reserved for you (by the way, the room itself is in the dark. So, you can’t cheat). Once you are sited at your place, you feel that your ears will be the only tools available if you want to know what’s going on”.

“But how do you start a conversation with the people in the room, I ask”?

“I will tell you, I will tell you, says Helena. So you are at your place. You start to understand that there are 7 persons at your table. If you pay attention to the voices, you can even know how many men and women are around you. “

Now, it’s time to talk. It’s time to learn the most about those guys near you. You will have to start a conversation fast because, in about 15 minutes, the host or one of her associate will come near you and guide you to another table.

The Benefits

What is great about mingle in the dark is that this new type of event will put you out of your routine. Prepare yourself. You will feel awkward when you will start to talk to a man. Now a great benefit of this new type of dating is that some of your prejudices and preferences will become irrelevant. You have no choice: you will have to go beyond the look. Let’s say that you hate men with mustaches. Well it’s possible that the very warm and charming man you are talking to is one of them. But you have no clue! The only thing that you notice is this great personality, his beautiful voice.

The other great benefit of mingle in the dark is that it’s great for shy people. In fact, this is almost the same argument I talked before but in reverse. The man will not see you. It means that they will not be too judgmental before they have talked to you. In other words, you will have the time to talk to 6 to 10 men before anybody sees you. This is great. No need to have the fear of rejection.

The disadvantage

Now how about the disadvantage? Well, at first, you may feel a bit unsettled. Almost speechless… Sure, Helena has read the eBook that I have suggested a couple of days before. Conversation Chemistry is perfect when you find yourself in a date that is like nothing you have experienced before: this is the moment when you will need some help to start and maintain a discussion.

The other problem is that a lot of people feel insecure when they are in the dark. Remember that, when you see nothing, your ears are the tools you have to understand what going on around you. For many men and women, this is not enough. Fear gets in the experience. If that’s your case, you better leave that new type of dating for someone else.

The other problem is the noise. Have you noticed that some people raise their voice when they are on the phone? They feel that if they can’t see the other person, it’s because they are far away: they need to talk louder. I call this phenomenon the Distance syndrome.

Well, a lot of people have that Distance Syndrome in a Mingle In The Dark event. If you have sensible ears, maybe this kind of event is not right for you.

Conclusion

Just like Helena, I don’t know if Mingle In The Dark is a trend right now. But for sure, if it’s not, it will be soon! The reason is that, at the end of the evening, men and women have changed place 2-3 times. The majority is very satisfied and amused by their experience. Most likely, this is the state of mind you will be when you will leave the room. You will feel like you have supers ears as you pass the door. You will be able to identify some voices.

“A man turned and looked at me. Then he said: hey, you are Helena, right”?

Time to exchange your phone numbers.

You want to give a try? Go to Meetup.com and find a Mingle In The Dark event near you. At the moment of this article, you will not find many of them. But keep looking. You will not regret it.

Do you have any question? Any comments? There is a little white box below. Don’t be shy and share your thoughts.

Now, you know how fun meeting men in the dark can be.

Go and find your amazing man!

Love,

Jo Fontaine.

XOXO

Online dating security tips: your first date

Dating

Dos and don’ts when dating a man you don’t know

A few days ago, I was in a talking with a friend who has decided to start dating online. Here’s the question she gave me just after she has read the article Online Dating Problems? Women Who Do This Feel Secure Online…

“I understand what you say, Jo. For instance, I will not quit the dating site platform to soon. That’s for sure! Now how about the first date? You still don’t know that guy. What can you do?”

This is the subject of this article, lady: what should you do and not do when you date for the first time a man that you have met online? Here we go!

“I know a great place!”

This is what he says. But this place will not be necessarily a great one for you. Remember that you have no idea of the type of men you are dealing with. In other words, you do not want to know him at your expense, following me? Security is the key. So where is the place that he proposes? (Now, I sorry if I sound like a big brother or even a father…)

Is it a public place, like a coffee shop or a park? Maybe it’s a restaurant. If it is, well, a few good points for the man! But it’s not enough. That public place should not be a club. In fact,author Katie P, for the blog Head-Heart-Health, suggests in her article online dating: the first date that you should never have a first date with a man you don’t know late at night; I think that it is an excellent advice. You should follow it.

Now remember. Go by yourself to that public place. Do not accept any pickups offer. If you can’t go by yourself somewhere, then this place is not the good one for first date. Period.

Things to say, things not to say.

Blogger Katie P continues with an advice I absolutely want will share with you: do not tell him where you live. This idea goes pretty well with the advice I gave you. Do not give any personal information other than your name. This includes not only your personal address but your phone number and your personal email address.

In a precedent article, I have talked about Google voice. Continue to use that tool.

A last thing here: maybe I’m a dinosaur, but I have to tell you this: I H-A-T-E those apps that offers location-aware features so a person can know where you are. The problem is that a twisted mind can always use that information against you. You know what I mean?

Lifewire, in his excellent article security tips for online dating, suggests that it would be better if you turn off the location aware feature of your dating app. I totally agree. Well, personally I would say to drop that sh?*t and use your laptop to date online but hey! we are in 2019!

Your mother was right…

Your parents have probably told you that (my mom has over a thousand times)…

Just before you go to your date, tell somebody where you go and when you should be back home. No need to say exactly why. For instance, you can say that you have met a man who’s a friend of a friend and that you don’t know him. Following me?

Now let’s say that you don’t mind telling the truth. Just say that you have met a man online and that it will be a first date. Nothing wrong with that… If you live alone, call one of your friends.

There’s nobody around? Well, write a note and leave it on your kitchen table.

Conclusion

Trust your instinct. If you feel uncomfortable with the words he uses and his behavior, do not hesitate to leave the place (by the way, this is when putting the location aware feature off will be the wisest move you have made all day). Do not share any personal information. This article is not made to scare you. A lot of people have found love after using dating sites for a while. Just remember that there no reason to put yourself in trouble. What you are looking for is good man. Be alert, so not give any personal information and everything should be OK.

Do you have any question? Any comments? There’s little box below. Share your experience with us.

Now, you know how to organize a first date with a man you don’t know.

Go! And find your amazing man!

Love,

Jo Fontaine

P.S. sorry to sound like a dino again. But do I have to mention it? No alcohol on the first date with somebody you don’t know?

Love.

Need A Husband? Julie And Julia Will Show You If He’s The Right One

Couple and relationship, Find a husband

**A man watching a “girl movie”?**

So here is my sister. She calls me and says:

“Jo. Just have found a great movie for you and your best friend who’s sick right now. You will go visit her tomorrow, right?”

“Uh… Yes”, I said after a little pause.

“Well when you will see her, go to Netflix and find the movie Julie and Julia. I know, I know… You don’t like “girls’ movies”. But this one is different. This movie is about cooking. She will l-o-v-e the movie“.

” A movie about cooking? Hum…”

See, my best friend is a great chef. When she talks about cooking, you see passion in her eyes. But she almost had to stop cooking because of her accident. Accidents in a restaurant happens a lot. A kitchen can be a very dangerous place…

For sure, this movie will be a winner. On my part, how could I say “no” to a movie talking about food?

And how about those “girl movie” parts, you ask?

Well, when those scenes will come, I can always close my eyes and cover my ears with my hands…

The lessons you can learn

This is not my goal to make a critique of the movie. But you know what? The greatest lesson you can learn from Julie and Julia is this: It all starts with a passion. Passion is the best way to find yourself, the secret formula to rebuild self-confidence. Then the ladies will show you the best qualities you want to find in a man before you marry him.

In the movies, you have 2 men of 2 different generations. Paul Child and Eric Powell. Let’s take a look to both of those gentlemen.

Husband #1 Paul Child: Determined, passionate and always on your side.

Ok, we are in the 50s. So it means that one of the reasons Julia wants to learn French cooking is that she wants to please her husband. But as you may have felt it, this is not only reason. She just loves cooking. Paul Child is a diplomat. He’s assigned for the moment in Paris. So Julia thinks “let’s go all the way”. Let’s take some cooking lessons in a great school and become a Cordon Bleu (a man’s world back in the days). How do you think Paul reacts? At first, he’s surprised. But he starts to support her lady in her dreams. Sometimes, her competitive sense seems to go over the top (especially when she wants to learn how to cut the onions like a chef). One day, Julia and her friends decide to write the first book for Americans that will talk about French cooking. This book should be about 700 pages! Everywhere, it’s refused. Nobody wants to publish that book. Guess who’s there to support her lady when she feels discouraged? Paul.

Now, something very important: Paul is not at all a doormat. He has his own goals and beliefs (and maybe he will get a lot of trouble for speaking his mind). Now he asks Julia what will happen if he loses his job? Julia is ready to go wherever he will have to go. This is my point. The man that you will marry will have to be supportive as you continue to pursue your dream. But this love path is not a one way avenue. In other words, if you want something from your man, you will have to give something in return when the time is arrived. How Paul and Julia did it back in the 50s? Well they have found a way to make their dreams compatible.

Think about your man right now. Do you think your dreams are compatible? Does he feel that this is an important point in the relationship? If the answer is yes, you may have found the winning ticket!

Husband #2 Eric Powell: a successful and sweet man

Now to tell you the truth, I don’t remember exactly what Eric’s job is. Most of the time, I was listening to my friend giving me comments about how the Julie tries to make Julia Child’s mayonnaise and a deboned duck in pastry. Eric is very supportive too. Julie has decided to cook every recipe of Julia’s book Mastering the art of French cooking . She will talk about the result in her brand-new blog. Sure the lady has tendencies to be too self centered along the way and it creates a tension in the couple. I don’t want to make any spoilers, so I will stop here. But, here again, Eric is not afraid to speak up his mind even if the argument can break the couple. You do not need a man who’s afraid to lose you. You need a strong man who cares about you. Sometimes, care means say things that you do not want to hear. Now, why does Eric is so supportive besides the fact that he loves his wife? I said in the article How to know if a man love me. For us, men, noting is free. A big reason is that he loves to eat (here is some Pepto-Bismol, Eric. Call me if you need more). So here we go again. Both dreams go along well. Both interests are compatible. The perfect match here is in the stomach!

Bottom line is this: only a strong man can be supportive. You both must have compatible dreams. That’s the perfect recipe. To be sure that you have spot the right man, it’s important that you read again from time to time your copy of the ebook Get A Great Guy Guide. It will help a lot.

Do you have any questions, any comments? There’s a little white box below. Don’t be shy to share your thoughts.

Now, you know if your man is the perfect candidate to be your husband.

Now go! And find your amazing man!

Love,

Jo Fontaine

P.S: Lil sis’ just told me what Eric’s job is. He’s an editor. Hum… The interests are even more compatible than I thought!