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The step #1 to find a good man

July 30, 2019 By Jo Fontaine Leave a Comment

Today may be an important post for you. As you read this article you will probably realize that you will need to adjust the way you think about your man and about relationships in general. Here’s how it works. To find a good man you will have to make this important first step: learn to ask the right question and stop asking yourself the wrong ones. Here’s why…

Asking the wrong question will ruin your chance to find a good guy.

A wrong question is pretty simple to spot if you think about it. This is the question that you ask when you are angry. Those questions are very difficult to answer because they are based frustration. You pretend that you are looking for an answer. In fact, what you do is just telling what you think about the situation. Here’s how this type of question looks like.

“What wrong with men?”

“Why men can’t stop lying?”

“Things were so easier back in the days. Why everything has to be that complicated today.”

“Why men can’t commit”

Here’s the catch. If your friend tells you: “yeah! You are right”, you stay frustrated. But someone is agreed with you so it’s OK.

If a woman (or a man. But in those times, we prefer to keep our mouth shut) is not agreed with you and give you an answer, you will be pissed. You will not listen to her even if her advice is wise.

You just want to express your frustration. As you do, you lose your focus, and stop looking around you. I have shared with you many real stories about singles that have totally been blind by frustration. Good men where only a few feet away; and they were unable to see them!

Good men are very sensitive to the vibration of women. They don’t want to have a complicated love life. Collect more and more of that frustration by asking the wrong questions and if will become more and more difficult for you to find a good man.

Related article: read the post why I can’t find a boyfriend. Change your map to love to learn more about the art of changing your way of thinking.

Asking the right question will help you understand your mistakes

Asking the right question is so important for you because they will help you find out your mistakes. Once you find them, you will have the chance to stop to make them.

A good question always opens possibilities for you. Here are some examples:

“Is there something I’m missing, here?”

“Is there something I need to change in my perception of what a good relationship should be?”

“Ok. Something got wrong in the date what was it”.

A valuable answer will always give you the opportunity to do something to make your next dating smoother. For answer, you can tell yourself that the next time that a guy lacks you in a speed dating event, there’s no second chance. You will not date him. You will not even let him explain himself.

Now let’s say that you just had a bad day at the office. You are not in a good mood but you still have to meet a guy at a chic restaurant. Of course, the date is not a success. Is there something you have missed?”

Yes. Better call the man and tell the truth and postpone the date

Because you are looking for something to do to make thing better the next time, your frustration doesn’t take all your mental space. You are in the solution mode. You are still ready to find the good man you are looking for.

Related article: read the post how to keep a man in love forever according to the zodiac signs- Do not do those mistakes. P.S: you don’t have to believe in astrology to read it.

Asking the right questions will help you realize what you really want…

Here is a very important question you may ask yourself.

“For real. Why am I looking for a good man?”

The more you dig, the more you may found answer that will unsettle you. In fact this is the reason why human hate to ask themselves the real question.

For instance, you might discover that, yes; you may be looking for a good man. But you think that a good man is boring as hell. You know, bald guy with glasses and work with computers…

Not that cute… But hey! he’s a good man…

Here’s another example of the definition you give to the expression “good guy” and what you are really looking for.

In a precedent article, I have talked about a Japanese lady who has found a good guy. She felt so happy. It happens that this guys was totally immature.

Let’s say that the odds were against her. When they got married, she was about 30 years old.

And his man was… 23…

What “good man” meant for her back them? Well and man who was kind to her and who finally would accept to marry her.

The label “Good” has comes with the ring for the lady. Why? In a lot of Japanese family, a woman has to be married around 28 years old. Things are changing right now, but the pressure is still heavy for a lot of women in Japan. She had to get rid of that family pressure. Finding that “good man” was, for her, the only way to get her mother and father off her back.

Take your time to think out what the expression “good man” means to you. A YouTuber recently divorced said that she was amazed of the number good guys there she has found.

I personally think that it’s true: they are everywhere (thought nobody’s perfect).

But things will be harder for you if your definition of a “good man” is a guy who will solve a problem you have.

Asking somebody else to solve your problem will, soon or later, lead to a big disappointment.

Following me?

Related article: how to find a quality man to know more about how to know exactly what you really want.

Conclusion

To conclude, ask yourself what you mean when you say “good man”. Who’s that guy? Take your time because there’s a good chance that your first answer will hide the real reason behind. When you will discover that reason, you will have the opportunity to understand that a man is not responsible for your existence. You will have to take care of your own issues. At that moment, you will start to discover the real good guys. Those who will be able to support you but who will not necessarily want to fulfill the little holes you have in your soul or your insecurities.

Remember. Most of the good, balanced men hate to have a complicated love life.

Now you know what is the first step to find a good man is to ask yourself the real questions and to find the answers. What “good” means to you? Why are you looking for a good man?

Go! And find your amazing man.

Love,

Jo Fontaine.

XOXO

The First Step To Stop Worrying Because You Can’t Find a Boyfriend

July 24, 2019 By Jo Fontaine Leave a Comment

This article is not like the others. As you read this post, you will have the chance to take action and start to get a better love life. Here how it works. Your goal today is to know exactly how worried you are. Yes you are asking yourself why you can’t find a boyfriend. But is that anxiety actually stops you to reach your goal?

To know it that’s the case, just answers the questions below. This test can help you to see what’s really going on in your love life. Maybe you will discover that the solution for you is pretty simple: you just have to change some habits. Or maybe you will understand that you need some help to get over those worries. They are ruining you love life.

Realize that even if the magic tool to get rid of worries in love have not been invented yet. But the answers that you give to the following question can give you a good idea of how severe your situation is.

Or that you don’t have to sweat about it…

This test is inspired form a book published in 1997. This book, written by Dr Edward M. Hallowell is simply named Worry.

Related article: read the article I can’t find a boyfriend Destroy your doubt now to know how to use visualization to get that positive vibe you need to find your man.

How to take the test?

“Testing me, testing me, testing me“… John Mayer– Vultures

Take a pen and a pager. If your answer is “not at all”, add 0 to your score; Add 1 point if the answer is “sometimes”. Add 2 points if you say “often”; 3 points if it’s “almost every day”. Some questions are closed questions: you can answer them only with a yes or a no. Add 3 points to your score for every “yes” and 0 for every “no”. Ready? Here we go!

Related article: read the article How To Mend My Broken Heart? 2 solutions To Help You Feel Better now to know why it’s so important to observe your emotions and know yourself

The test

Would you like to worry less about your love life?
When you think about your love life, do you start to worry about being single forever? How often does it happen in a week?
Are you the kind of person who worries about things even if you know that everything is OK in your life in general?
Where you a worried child?
Do your friends tell you that you worry too much about things?
Do your family tell you that you worry too much about things?
Do your worries stop you to think about your real situation? Is your judgement affected?
Do your worries mess up your vacation, the moments you spend with your friend
Do you think often about those times when you have dated a moron? How many times do you think about those guys who have no class?
Do you think that men are all liars and just can’t be trusted?
Do you think about dying alone?
Are you worried about your health to a point where it seems totally irrational (your friend and parent have told you about that tendency)?
Have someone told you that your worries are irrational?
Do you worry about your finance?
How many times have you been paralyzed by worries in your love life (you just couldn’t approach that cute guy even if you have heard that you are totally his type, for instance)?
Are you always thinking about what people think about you? “Oh… she’s still single? How come?”
How‘s your skin? Here, think about how your body react to your worries. Have you noticed something?
Are you so negative that it seems that you have no idea of where to start to get a better love life? So you finally do nothing at all.
Do you take alcohol or drugs when you worry about something?
Are you totally unable to find something positive when you are worried about your love life?
How often do you go back to your bad experience in your love life?
Do you worry about the future even if your date goes well. Do you start to think that something may happen and ruin everything?
Do you wake up in the night thinking about your sad love life?
Do you think that it’s dangerous to be self-confident? That it’s an attitude that can put someone into trouble?
Do you procrastinate a lot?
Are you shy?
Do you feel that everything never goes well when you date of meet a man?
Do you feel that something will go wrong when you go out for a date?
You see yourself dating a cute guy. What happens when you play a scenario in your head? Are you often pessimist?
Let’s say that things are going well with a man. Do you have negating thoughts that cross your mind?
How often do you ask yourself if a man is trying to abuse you?
Do you think that positive people are superficial?
Do people around you describe you as a creative, imaginative woman?
Do you have problem to forget a comment that someone have told you?
Do you like to establish some reachable objective? Something like this one: in this speed dating event, I will talk to 20 men, no matter what happens”
Do you often need someone to feel reassured?
Do you often take things out of proportion? A man says something that is no big deal and, suddenly, it seems that the world is about to end.
Do you think that if you do not try to control everything, something bad will happen to you? So, in other words, you try to think about every thing that could go wrong in a date to feel more secured.
Have you been sexually abused?
Now that you are adult, would you describe your youth as an unstable one?
Do you have some obsessive habit or thoughts? Tendencies that you can’t control. Do you have panic attacks?
Think about your family history. Do you have a parent or a grandparent that was depressed, or had a compulsive trouble?
Do you have some health trouble that is the result of your worries, according to your doctor?

The result

OK, the minimum you can have is 0. If that’s your score, then I will say that you must be Buddha or something. I want to meet you!

Now, if you are under 25, you are not excessively worried about your love life even if you are looking for a man. Wonderful.

26-75: well let’s not be worries about that score yet. Yet there is some risk. Just continue to observe your attitude and your reactions. Continue to find ways to lower your stress level.

76-150: the red zone. I would suggest you to consult a professional if you are worried that much about your love life (and maybe about your life in general). There’s nothing wrong with that. The strongest people in the world have needed something some help. Why would you be ashamed to do the same? Worries of that level are dangerous for your body, your mind and your soul. Take care of yourself, lady.

Now you know the next step you will have to make to stop worrying and star dating with a relaxed mind.

Go. And find your amazing man

Love,

Jo Fontaine

XOXO

The reason why you can’t get a boyfriend

July 22, 2019 By Jo Fontaine Leave a Comment

Here’s what you will have to do the next time you ask yourself this question: “why can’t I get a boyfriend?” Ask yourself this second question: “am I looking at the right place? Is there something I’m missing”.

In this article is important because I will share with you the first reason why it seems that you can’t get a boyfriend. Once you will get it, you will feel that your research get will be easier. You will even have fun!

And fun is a magic recipe to get what you want in life.

What is the first reason you can’t find a boyfriend? You are not focused enough. Here how being focused will help you find a mate.

Here’s what you will have to do the next time you ask yourself this question: “why can’t I get a boyfriend?” Ask yourself this second question: “am I looking at the right place? Is there something I’m missing?“.

And fun is a magic recipe to get what you want in life.

What is the first reason you can’t find a boyfriend? You are not focused enough. Here how being focused will help you find a mate.

Related article: check out now the article Why I Can’t Find A Boyfriend? Are You Too Picky? to know more about what stops you to find your man.

Focus to reach your goal.

Have you noticed how it’s easy to get lost in your research for a mate? Think about it for a while. It probably happen to you a couple of time. Here’s why you need to understand that tendency. You need to keep a clear view of what you want in your mind to be able to find it. Lost people rarely reach their goal.

Here something else about being focused: it means to have a clear idea of what going on in your head and around you. The more you stay focused on your goal and on your emotion, your intuition, the more you will be able to choose the right technique to find your man.

The right technique for you.

I will talk more about that point in the next section.

But, here’s what you can do to stay focused in your research: take a piece of paper before you go to a speed dating or before you go online. Write a simple goal. Something that you can reach today. For instance, you can write:

talking to at least 15 men.
to look at 20 profiles.
write 10 emails

Observe your emotion as you are reaching your goal. Is there something that you don’t like in the process? What it is? This point here is crucial. Here’s why.

To know yourself and your taste is the best way to choose the right platform for you.

Now that you are focused on your goal, your emotion, you start to notice a few important point. First, your intuition is telling something. When it happens, you have to listen.

Maybe your feeling says that the method you use is the right one. Maybe it says: “you know what? I think that you should try something else.”

You start to feel that you will have to make some choice.

For sure, there are tens of different method for a single to meet people, today. The dating industry have noticed event if they have something in common, the single have different personalities and abilities. Some people are outgoing and like to talk to strangers. Some are nerds; their best friends are their computers.

When you stay focused on your goal and your feelings, you start to choose a method that fits to your personality.

Slowly you discard the other methods…

Let’s say that someone recommends you to go on a particular dating site.

“That’s where I’ve found my man. It works, girl!”

Well good for her. But It happens that you are not that good with computers. Yes, at work, you are OK. But at home, the only social media you use is Facebook.

Twice a week…

Dating site is not for you. It will be boring, you will get lost in all the option available. Worst: you will lose money.

I just had a discussion with my sister about that problem. Like always, her answer was short, straight to the point.

” Listen, Jo. I’m shy. I don’t see myself going in a club or in bar to find a man. And I like to see people I’m talking to. So forget about dating online. That why I used speed dating method. I know that there, I will have to talk to at least 20 men every evening. They will have to come to me and talk. It doesn’t matter if I’m afraid to talk to stranger. The system is there to do all the work for me…”

In the first section I recommended that you write on a piece of paper what you like and don’t like in your recent experience in the dating world. This is the reason. You will have to find the system that will help you find your man.

Stay focused on your goal. Know yourself. The choice will be made by itself.

Following me?

Related article: check out now the article Why Can’t I Get A Boyfriend: 2 Reasons And The Solutions to know more about how to look in the right place to find your man.

The different type of platform to find a mate

There are a lot of different ways to meet single men. Here are few ones.

Through friends
At bars or other public areas
At work
At a public event
Through family
Through dating service and events
Online dating or through dating apps
As you are practicing your passions
Community and volunteer places, church

Of course, you can try all those different methods. Nothing stops you. But again, as I said in the first part of the article, stay focused. Be conscious of your reaction, your intuition. I know somebody who have left her church for a personal reason. Looking a man in her church may have been the perfect solution for her before. But going back would be a nightmare for her. This is not an option for her anymore.

Now let’s say that you are good with computer. You are popular online. You know how to create emotions, how to get noticed. Well online dating may be the best option for you. Focus on your talent and your abilities.

You are always working? You don’t even have a social life? Maybe the best way for you to find a mate is to look where you work. This is not that unusual. Why do you think doctors are married with… other doctors or nurses?

Focus on the cards you have in your hand. And play.

Take your time to analyze your personality and your options.

Then choose the right method for you.

Conclusion

You will find a lot of recommendation online about the different methods to find a mate. You will read a lot of pro and cons, a lot of different advice. But at the end of the day, the choice is yours. That’s why you need to focus on your goal, preference, and your abilities.

Sometimes, some recommendations will even go against your intuition. Here, why not give a chance to your feelings?

For instance, my friends used to tell me over and over to never mix love and work.

Well, it may be like good advice. But, in my life, I had a couple a beautiful love stories at work. It happens that, back in the days, I didn’t have a very exciting social life. So my working place was where I could easily find single women.

Don’t limit yourself to what people say around you.

Focus on your goal. Observe, think and choose.

Now you know that, in love, the best advisers are your intuition and your experience.

Go! And find your amazing man.

Love,

Jo Fontaine

XOXO

How To tell If a Man Loves You

July 12, 2019 By Jo Fontaine 3 Comments

Imagine. A lady I know asks me this question: how to tell if a man loves you? I will give you the answer in this post. Continue to read this article and you will know how to read his mind. You will find the signs that you will have to look for. So stick around!

Sign #1: the way he looks at you

The classic advice you will read on the net is that a man in love will look at you with his jaw open like saying:

“Oh, my god! That goodness is not for real!”

Well, it can happen. But a man who’s really in love with you will often feel insecure. He will most certainly be nervous.

This is an important sign. That’s how most men are. They can do nothing about it.

Think about what the great boxer episode Muhammad Ali says in a classic interview. Here is Veronica Porché, third wife by his side. The host asks her:

“What did he say the first time you met him?”

“He didn’t say a word”, says Veronica.

The Host is surprised.

“Wow! Really?”

Muhammad Ali raises his shoulders and says: “I was scared… Beautiful women are scaring!”

Like always, Ali tells the truth in a few words.

Think about the man you like. What’s his nonverbal language? Is he nervous when you are around? For sure, a man look at you straight in the eyes, smiling you will know for sure that he likes you. But he may have a serious feeling for you if he’s unable to stay still when you are around (or if he stays anomaly silent).

After all, that what most of you ladies do when you see a cute man, right?

Related article: Read the article How To Know If A Man Loves Me to be able to read even more signs that show that he’s in love with you.

Sign #2: You are important to him

Here is what a man desire deeply. We want to make sure that the women we love (I mean by that, girlfriend, sisters, mother and best friend) feel happy and secure. Yes it’s ridiculous; a woman can take care of her own life. But that’s how men feels. This is what they want to see.

This feeling is important for you. Here’s why.

For a man, this feeling is a big flag. The day has that feeling for you, he will know: he’s in love. At that moment, he will know that what he feels inside is not only sexual.

Now, it’s possible to see some of those signs from the outside.

One big sign is that he will try to make your life easier. Please understand this. A man in love is not necessary a dummy looking for attention. Only a few men in love will change themselves into a slave and obey every time you snap your fingers.

But look at the way he behaves with you. The little attentions. Look at his desire to help you. It means a lot. He just cares. Most men want to help a lady they like. He will make some suggestions when you have a problem. Maybe that suggestion will sound stupid. That’s OK. It’s the intention that counts!

When you will live a hard moment, look how he behaves. Maybe he will try to encourage you.

Or he will say nothing: he tries to find the right words to say; but he just can’t find them. He looks concerned.

Both reactions are important signs: he cares about you.

Again it’s the intention that counts. The desire to help. Pay attention to the way he looks at you. Listen to the tone of his voice. Following me?

Sign #3: he’s happy to see you

Here’s how I realized that I was deeply in love with my lady: things seemed to go better every time I was thinking about her (even if I was living a nightmare at the office). In fact, there was a shift in my state of mind as soon as I was with her. Suddenly, life was wonderful. The song “my girl” is not only a cute song. It talks about a typical experience men have. Do you see that he starts to relax when he’s with you? Is he happy to be with you? Again, you will have to look for physical signs instead of words. That’s how most men are.

Of course, those signs will not necessarily be detected the first date. Maybe it will take 3-4 more dates. Too long, you might say? I will answer that love at first sight doesn’t happen very often. It usually grows.

Now look at the way he looks at you. Notice is body language. Does he turn toward you immediately when he sees you like if he is trying to say: “I’m going to hug her and keep her close to me forever”? What you want to look for is that eagerness to be close to you. But not necessarily the action itself.

Because if it was that obvious, you wouldn’t ask yourself the question “how to tell if a man loves you”.

Right?

Related article: Read the article how to make a man miss you to learn how to make him crazy about you.

Sign #4:”Why you’re not here”?

This sign is like the other face of the coin. Here’s the logic: If he wants to see you more, it will hurt if he hears that you are not available. You will hear a kind of disappointment in his voice. You will probably see it in his face. Now listen. Many people on the net suggest women to play games with that feeling. It’s up to you. But playing HTG (hard to get) can backfire at you. I stopped dating some women for that reason in the past. HTG works like a charm for insecure men (and, yes, they are a lot of them in those days). But be careful it you feel attracted by a man who knows what he wants. Most of those guys hate games…

Now, it will happen that you are not available. After all you have your own friends, your family. A real man will understand. But can you see or hear a kind of disappointment? If the answer is yes, he’s falling in love with you.

Related article: Read the review Get A Great Guy Guide- review to learn how to get to the next level with that cute of yours.

Conclusion

There may be 2 reasons why you’re not sure about the type of relation you have with a man. The first one is quite simple: He doesn’t love you. Well, he may like you as a friend or a colleague. The second possibility is that he may have some feelings for you. But they will have to grow. If you find yourself in that situation, you will have to pay attention to his signs.

You will not have all your answers in 1 date.

Now, if that cute man is one of your colleagues, you will have to find a way to met him outside of your office. The job is rarely a good place to find the type of answers you are looking for… You need more emotional intimacy.

Now you know the signs that you will have to look for.

Go! And find your amazing man.

Love,

Jo Fontaine

XOXO

3 Dating Sites For Baby Boomers

July 6, 2019 By Jo Fontaine Leave a Comment

Hi, lady! In this article I will talk about 3 Dating sites for baby boomers. Those sites could be perfect for you: you don’t have to be shy because of your age. Those 3 sites are Agematch, 50 Plus Club and Ourtime. I will talk about what’s great with each of those sites and… well, what’s not so great about them. Here we go!

Agematch

This site is special. Not only you don’t have to hide your age but it even celebrates the age difference. In the dating world, the expression age gap dating is sometimes used. It means that, on this site, you are free to meet younger men. Those guys will not be surprised to be approached. So this site is pretty secure if you are looking for someone younger.

The sign up process is pretty simple. In fact, you can register via Facebook and voilà! Like in most sign up process, you will have to wait for a confirmation email. Anyway, it takes only 5 minutes to write your profile…

The platform feels like a social network. You can like the pictures in a profile, write comments. You can ask question to the community, express your thoughts, just like you would in a blog or a forum. It means that you can become quite popular on Agematch. Now when you find a man that you find cute, you can send him a wink or a private message.

What is great with this platform is that it helps you to write your profile if you have no idea of what to write. The majority of the fields are presented with a multiple choice of answers. You just have to pick the closest one to our real situation. Now, if you want your profile to be more personal, you just have to go to the about me section and elaborate on your answers.

You can start with the free service to get a feel of the platform. Once you get used to it, have sent a few winks, you can go for the paid service.

1 month / 29.95 USD

3 months / 59.95 USD

6 months / 95.95 USD

The number 1 problem with Agematch is that some countries are still restricted on the platform today. The site is not as international as it claims.

The cons:The other problem is that you can’t send a message if you are a standard member. You will have to wait for his message, first. But you can wick him to make him understand that you have noticed him.

50 Plus Club

This site too has two options. You can use it for free with some restrictions. As a free member, you can check the profiles, receive messages. Just like for Agematch, you can answer incoming texts but you can’t start a conversation. But still, you can send a “smile” to make him understand that you have noticed him.

Now, one you pay, you have access to the senior chat where people over 50 can communicate, share ideas about life, romance, family, etc. You can hang out with people like you in the forums.

But again, what is free on Agematch is only available with the paid option on 50 Plus Club.

The good side of 50 Plus Club is that there is a high number of single in their 50 on this site. The magazine and the forums have been made for you: the reason they exist is to give you some dating tips online and offline. Another thumbs up is for the security system. The fake profile and the cons are detected pretty fast.

Related article: click now the post Women Who Do This Feel Secure Online to know more about how to use the dating site safely.

For the cons: For sure, with 50 Plus Club, you will get what you are looking for. Sure, it’s not cheap. But the prices are lower than the ones proposed by Agematch…

1 month / 24.90 USD

3 months / 59.70 USD

6 months / 85.40 USD

12 months / 154.80 USD

The cons: now, some people have said that this site is too politically correct. You can share your thoughts on the forums as long as it goes with the site’s political position. Maybe. But hey! Are you on this site to share your political point of view or to find a mate? Anyway, the discussions are fun and warm in general.

A last complaint is about the number of inactive profile. This is a general problem in most dating sites. We all have to deal with it. The rule of thumb is this one. A profile that never participates in a forum will not respond to your “smile” or to your message.

Related article: click now the post Find A Perfect Boyfriend Online to know how to attract the man you want online.

Ourtime

I know that Ourtime is having the wind in its sails. One of the reasons is that the matching algorithms can help you find the man you want. Every day, you will receive a selected number of handpick matches. In fact, you can do so much with the tools that it can become overwhelming for some.

For sure, you can find your mate with Ourtime. But you can use it to find a pen pal, a travel or sport partner. You can do a lot of stuff with that platform: you can give digital gifts, chat and email. You can connect via text and phones, send flirts, add people to your favorites. With Ourtime, there is so much different ways to communicate that the site fits for every personality. It’s doesn’t matter if you are outgoing or if you are shy. You will find a way to connect with the man you want to meet.

The cons: Now some people have complained that the site has no real free option. You can’t communicate with anyone with the free option. All you can do is to look at the profile. Some people had some payment issues with the site. I would suggest that you use a prepaid card it you want to try this site.

Conclusion

You always want to test the platform before you commit to a paid program. Not all the site are alike: you will find out that some of them seems to be built for you while other just seems poorly built (at least for your taste) Just remember that some general dating sites like like eHarmony or match.com are still available for you. Mature people do have profiles in those popular sites and find their mate.

Related article: read the article the 3 best free dating sites to know more about the most popular sites today.

Now, you know that it’s always better to explore and test the dating sites before you make a choice.

Now log in and find your amazing man!

Love,

Jo Fontaine

XOXO

How to keep a man in love forever according to the zodiac signs- Do not do those mistakes

July 1, 2019 By Jo Fontaine 2 Comments

So in this article I’m going to talk about how to keep a man in love forever according to the zodiac sign. No, you don’t have to believe in astrology to read this article. See each in every sign as a type of person that you could meet in your daily life. You already know that you can always find something in common between you and somebody else, right? Keep reading this article. You will discover typical mistakes that people do; each mistake will be attached to a zodiac sign. With that knowledge you will all the tools you need to keep your love life save from all those common faux pas. Here we go!

Related article: To know more about the art of observing yourself, and how to spot your mistakes, read the article How To Mend My Broken Heart? 2 solutions To Help You Feel Better

Aries

The Aries have the reputation of saying it’s my way or the highway. Lack of flexibility is, for sure, a love killer. Do you think that you could have that aspect in your personality? Do you accept that your man has a different opinion than yours? Another aspect of Aries is that they tend to give order (more or less subtle) and expect to be obeyed. Are you’re a sexy tyrant, lady? Hum…

Taurus

The dark side of Taurus people are their tendencies to be stubborn and selfish. Think about it (if you have a problem with your man). Could it be possible that you have a tendency to act like a raging bull? Do you like to “tackle” everyone who looks like an adversary even if that person is your husband? Sometimes, without even thinking about it, words can come out of your mouth and hurt your loved ones.

Gemini

The 2 faces sign. Yes, Gemini has the reputation to be great at deceiving and manipulating people. Do you try to use his affection to get what you want? Do you have the mentality that sounds like: “It’s what I want or you can kiss my a?% goodbye”?

Cancer

Cancers are revengeful. They hate to lose an argument or a fight. Do you think that an old problem can be the cause of your fear that he will, one day, leave you? Maybe you had a misunderstanding a couple of months ago. Now, unconsciously, all you give to your man are negative vibrations. You are waiting for him in the corner; he will kiss the floor, right? A couple can’t survive if it’s based on resentment and anger…

Leo

Leos are loyal. That’s why they hate the feeling of being manipulated or, worst, betrayed. the problem with that feeling is that it can be based on wrong assumptions. Do you have a suspicious mind, for instance? If you do, be careful. You could lose a faithful man; this is an attitude that only a few men can endure…

Virgo

Virgos are mister and miss perfect. At least, that’s what they think. Could it be possible that you are looking for perfection in your mate? That attitude can make any lover regret to have felt in love. Virgos have the reputation to judge a lot. Everywhere, anytime, anyone.

Libra

You have so much charm. Well in public. At home, hum… I know someone who was like that. it was quite disturbing. When a Libra wants something, he or she will get it. It’s doesn’t matter how many poeple will have to be crushed along the way. Sometimes, among those victims, your loved one… Think about your occupation, your job. Do you think that your man get the hits because of your ambition, your desire?

Scorpio

Nobody takes revenge on someone better than a Scorpio. Oh, a Cancer keeps it inside. But the Scorpio just want to take even. Sometime, you are in your own right. But is it always necessary? Resentment can hurt your couple real bad especially if the mistake your man have made is not that serious. At the end of the day, think that sometimes, it feels like you are hurting yourself…

Sagittarius

Sagittarius have moral. Well that’s what they think. In fact, that’s their biggest downfalls. Sagittarius always think that they act right. They never see anything wrong in their actions. Even if they hurt their loved ones. But the worst is that you can’t convince them of their mistake. They will have to figure it out by themselves. Maybe it will be too late. Don’t let that happen to you, lady.

Capricorn

Capricorns are known to have a tormented mind. They are willing to do anything to do anything to hide their pain so nobody sees it. Sometimes, they will blow their chance to be in couple or they will destroy their relationship: they are almost obsess by their career. When they finally see what’s going on, it’s too late. Don’t let that happen to you.

Aquarius

People say that the Aquarius are narcissistic and lack of compassion. They forget to think about the effect that their acts or words can have on people around them. But, the first victims of the Aquarius are always themselves. But they don’t understand why their love partners leave them. The result is that they have problem to trust people. Is that your case?

Pisces

Pisces have a split personality, it seems. Think about the comics. The main character has to make a decision. There’s the devil that pops out on his right and an angel on his left. What advice will be followed? Do you sometimes fall in the dark side because “it’s easier, faster”? Those moments could be the reason why your couple is in a struggle right now. Or why you dread to find yourself in this situation.

Conclusion

So remember. The goal of the article is to think about the possible reasons why your couple may be in a difficult situation. The best way to keep your man is to think about each of those personality traits. Do you feel the need to make some adjustment in your attitude?

Do you have any question, any comments? There’s a little white box below. I’ll be more than happy to read your thoughts.

Now you know that you always have to examine your action and your thoughts.

Now go! And give a big hug to your man!

Love,

Jo Fontaine

XOXO