Today, we are going to talk about the 5 keys to make a man obsessed with you
Say, you have a man in mind. You don’t know him very well yet. But you want his attention. You already see him as a potential boyfriend. He seems so sweet with his friends.
What do you do?
Well, first, realize that there are ways to make a guy of your dream obsessed with you in a short period of time.
All you need to know is how men’s brain works and how it processes non-verbal information. The right posture, certain seducing gestures and appropriate facial expressions can do wonders in your love life.
Now, before you learn those five golden keys and unlock the door to the subconsciousness of any man you want, you need to keep in mind those two principles first:
- Throw away all the bias against “man hunting”. A lady can make the first step. It is okay for a woman to initiate conversation with the man she likes. No, it’s not considered indecent in the modern world. You just have to approach them the right way to make a successful first contact. This leads to the second point…
- Try putting yourself in the men’s shoes. Not all of them are daredevils, 100% ready to approach the woman they are attracted to. Some of them are shy and indecisive, moreover terrified of any chance of rejection.
Use your eyes and lips to make a guy obsessed with you
Now, you are ready to try the woman’s touch and make a man obsessed with you in a blink of an eye. Let’s look at the key #1 which is glance with a smile.
Whom would you rather talk to: a cheerful and radiating self-confidence person or a gloomy one with a low self-esteem? Positive energy of a woman is the most important thing attracting men to her as moths to a flame. The only condition to fulfill is make sure that your smile is genuine, not strained.
Here are a few smile-seducing techniques that work:
- Maybe the most effective smile technique is the cute smile of a shy woman. You want to make a non-verbal contact with a man you are interested in? Look at him with a coy smile. Then look somewhere else (not too fast. Let the magic do its work!). That smile will be perceived as an invitation for him to make the first step. In reality, that step is already done. You did it!
- A person’s pupils talk louder than words. This is a more direct approach. It is inspired by this psychological interpretation we make went we see a person’s pupils as they are dilated or retracted. When they dilate, it’s a sure sign of attraction. So here’s how to use that technique : Look at any object far behind the man, then, turn your gaze towards him. By quickly focusing on a close subject, your pupils are bound to dilate. Thus, you will send him a signal of seduction. Stay relaxed as you use that technique. Pretend that it just happens that you look at him. Your eyes will do all the work
- Keep your eyes on the man you chose, then look away and look at him again from under your eyelashes. A woman just gave me that look yesterday. This is a killer weapon of seduction.
To sum up, any glance with a smile will do, except for artificial or pretentious smiles. If you want, you can practice your technique in front of a mirror. This is the best way to develop your own style of smile. Think about how Marilyn Monroe, May West or Audrey Hepburn smile. They all have a different, but highly effective seduction smile.
Related article: to known more about the art of being coy, read the article Will I ever get a boyfriend.
Use your hair to make them gaga about you
Do you remember the episode of Friends called “The One With Ross And Monica’s Cousin” ? The beautiful woman Cassie ( played by Denise Richards) causes Ross, Chandler and even Phoebe to stare at her gorgeous hair in a way that creates many awkward and funny moments. And this is the key #2-hair.
Here’s the truth : woman’s long, silky, nice smelling hair is the dream of any man. They love to run it through their fingers or simply smell and look at it. The plan is simple : use the charm of your hair to make a man gaga about you.
Show him its beauty- shake your hair (you can spray some perfume on it), fix or smooth it. Play with the strands or wind it around your finger and loosen it.
But do it like you have barely noticed his presence.
Just like Cassie in the TV show, pretend that you are lost in your thoughts as you are seducing him with your hair.
Men will be hypnotized by your actions and will be unable to take their eyes off you. Feel yourself a snake charmer and enchant him with a “flute” aka ‘hair’.
Use your posture and gait to make him crazy about you.
Your posture and gait are powerful tools in the art of seduction. The proper gait and body posture can literally drive a man crazy about you. Here are some basic rules you should follow.
Lesson #1: Keep that idea in mind: I’m sexy and confident. Your body will soon or later follow your thoughts. Look how you start to straighten your back, tightening your belly. You spread your shoulders, try to keep your head straight. Look how you walk. When you make your steps, try to slightly wiggle your hips.
It would be a good idea to practice in front of the mirror to make sure that you do not exaggerate your movements. Maybe you do not want to look like a… well “a woman with low moral responsibility”…
Lesson#2: You have heard that narrow skirts are really sexy. It’s trye. But don’t worry if you are not comfortable with those type of clothes. You can be sexy with a long skirt or a pair of pants.
The most important is to remember that you should move the leg first and the body afterwards. It’s the keystone of a beautiful gait.
The classic: the mirror technique
The key #4 of making any guy deeply obsessed with you is mimicking his gestures and body movements. There is a reason why this mirror technique is so popular: the human brain picks up such signals as indicators of being of the same “blood type”. It’s like you and the man you want are meant to be together.
For example: he puts the glass on the table – you do the same, he touches his face – and so do you, he changes his pose – you change yours. The man will relax and feel safe in your company. There will be a feeling of “I must have known this woman before” or “we must have a lot in common”.
The funny thing is that he will probably try to mimic your own gestures.
This is why you should not overdo it. You will kill the effect if you mirror him as a parrot. There is an old saying that says: “Everything is good in moderation”. This is the case.
That sweet touch to make his motor running.
If you two are not complete strangers, then the key # 5 will be your to-go strategy for finally winning him over. It’s called subtle touching.
The truth is that our physical bodies have constant deficiency in touches and hugs.
Subtly touching the man you like creates relaxed atmosphere and relieves tension, while bringing you closer together.
Help the man fall in love with you with these simple tricks:
- Touch his wrist when you agree with something he said;
- Slide your hand over his shoulder, saying goodbye:
- Give him a friendly hug when you meet (it helps to build trust between people);
- “Accidentally” drop something on the floor and bend over to pick it up, so that strands of your hair touch his arm. So sexy…
Related article: know more about the subtle but powerful art of touching. Read the article:Suddenly this guy is crazy in love with you. The power of sexual tension.
There are many tools you can add to your arsenal can use making a man obsess over you. Try them out and see what works best for you.
And the most important: have fun trying those techniques. A seductress always has fun playing the sweet game of seduction.
Now you know how to make that man crazy about you.
Go. And find your amazing man!
Life & relationship coach.