In this article, I will share with you 4 tips to attract a man fast. Here we go!
Tip #1: forget about the competition
There are two types of competition that can sabotage your chance to meet a man. The first one is the way you consider the other women. Every day, you scroll down the news feed on Twitter, Facebook. You wonder: “how can I compete with those models”? Then you think: “well, those ladies workout every day for hours and hours. They have the money to pay nutritionists, yoga instructors and make-up specialists. Their job is stay in shape and look pretty”.
But you have a regular 9 to 5 job. It’s impossible. So you think it’s impossible to can’t compete with those women.
Well, you don’t have to…
Men love all type of women. Realize that there is more than one guy who likes exactly your type of body. This is the reason why you see some gorgeous men in couple with women who are not considered “hot” by the social standard. In a precedent article, I have talked about the fact that only one characteristic of your body is enough to make a man crazy about you. The magic starts if you have what he likes. You don’t have to look like Megan fox to attract a man.
The other type completion is created by the belief that you are not enough. You think that you need to be just like your neighbor who has found a boyfriend recently. This attitude will hurt you: it affects your body language. You cannot attract a man with a type of energy that says: “don’t look at me. I don’t like my body”.
Forget about that competition. Forget about those pinups on social media. You know some women who have a lot of success with men? Who cares! You have something that they don’t have.
You are you.
You are unique.
Tip #2: confidence works better than a simple smile.
This second tips is the logical point following the first one. Confidence is the master key to attract men. Some women don’t have it. But they fake it. Think about Marilyn Monroe, for instant.
No matter how you look, you will have problem to get noticed if you are hiding yourself. Does it mean that you have to be out going with men? Not necessarily.
The Collins dictionary defines the word “confidence” as a state of mind when a person is sure about his or her own abilities, qualities or ideas. It means that to be confident, you need to know your value. You have to know exactly what you have to offer to a man you like.
So here is a very important step : take a piece a paper. Now answer those questions: what is special about you? Think about all the good things your friends have told you about your personality. Why do they like you so much? It you have problems to find some positive aspect of your personality ask a friend. You will get some answers pretty fast, believe me.
The idea, here, is pretty simple. Ask yourself: “what do I have to offer to that cute guy?”
If your answer is “I don’t know”, I will say: “look harder”
Nobody is insignificant unless they think they are…
Tip #3: let that positive vibe irradiate all around you.
Now, knowing that you have something to offer is one thing. Showing it is something else. How do you know that you are a passionate woman, a lady who’s fun to be around? It’s a bit complicated to explain to a guy that you are the right woman for him. The best solution is to use your positive vibration to make him feel that you are a fascinating woman.
“Ugh… Positive vibration, you say. Not again that expression. What does it mean, anyway?”
A vibration is simply how you feel inside. Think about it. When you feel great in your mind and in your body, you act in a certain relaxed way. Have you noticed that, when you are in a joyful mood, people react in a certain way? They see you as a breath of fresh air, so to speak. Men are very sensible to that kind of vibration. Novel and movie have talked about that fact. Men love to feel that there’s something special in a woman.
Remember. A relaxed and feminine attitude is sexy for a man.
Now the best way to have that positive vibe is to start to practice a passion. If you don’t have one, right now, find it. You can’t be a fascinating woman if you have no passion at all. You will need that energy to multiply inside so that you will be able to enchant the man you want.
Have a pleasant life. It’s the easiest way to attract a man.
Related article: Learn how to build a positive vibe. Read the post why I can’t find a boyfriend. Change your map to love.
Tip #4 Appearance counts. But not that much
Now you know why appearance is not the major key to attract a man. By “appearance”, I’m talking about the cost of your clothes, how expensive is the makeup you put on your face. Sure, you want to make sure that everybody understands that you take care of your body. You want to be seen as a classy woman, a lady of value. That’s OK. This is just a statement you are making. Once it’s done, try to remember that you are not in competition with the other women around. I know that this advice is very difficult to follow for some of you, ladies. I know that many women use their appearance not only to attract men but to send messages to the “competition”.
But the truth is this. To attract the right guys, you don’t have to count that much on the clothes you wear. A man who likes you will find you attractive anyway.
Related article: Know why your look doesn’t matter that much. Read the article looking for a new boyfriend. Does your look really matter?
Tip #4 Learn how to approach men.
There was a time when you just have to sit there and wait until a man comes to you. Well, it seems that this era is gone. Today, you will have to be proactive to get noticed. No, I don’t mean that you will have to flirt with men. You don’t have to if you are shy. But you will have to learn how to approach a man. In the post How to approach a man safely, I say that to “Approach” means to “talk to someone for the first time”. The subject of this first contact is not important.
Related article: master the art of conversation and build sexual tension in a man now!. Read the post conversation chemistry – review.
To attract a man, you will have no choice but to observe what going on inside. How to you feel about yourself? Do you think that you deserve to be approached by men? Do you have something great to offer? Don’t worry if your answer is “no” to any of those questions. It simply means that you will have to discover a part of yourself that you have not seen yet. Like I have said, Nobody is insignificant unless they think they are…
In other words, there is a door that is just in front of you, ready to be opened. You have the opportunity to change your life, to make it more pleasant.
Now you know that a pleasant life attracts the people you want.
Go and find your amazing man.