You surely can seduce a man with your voice. All you have to do is to use a few tricks and know when to use it. In this article, I will show you 3 ways to find your sexy voice and make a man fall in love with you. Here we go!
What men love to hear.
Ask any men. They will give you the same answer. A sexy voice can drive a guy crazy. Now, what’s great is that you can find your sexy voice pretty fast: you don’t have to create it from scratch: you already have all that you need. All you have to do is to find the tone that is right for you.
First, you really need to understand why you need a sexy tone of voice. With your sexy voice, you will not only seduce. You will show your personality. Your voice is the best tool ever to present your personality in sound. That is the kind of voice that men want to hear.
And your sexy voice starts with…
Tip #1The low register
Have you noticed that people have tendencies to raise the tone of their voice when they talk to people they like? Think about how your voice changes when you talk to a child or when you are petting your dog. Yep, this is what we do: our voice sounds like Fran Drescher and this is a huge mistake. The high register is not sexy at all. To make a man horny, you will have to go deeper with your voice. With the low register, you will show that you are sexually assured and calm.
Sure, you don’t want to exaggerate it; your voice has to be natural. So how do you do this? Let’s take the advice of the great actor, Morgan Freeman.
Exercises 1: yarn
When the James Cohen asked Morgan Freeman how to get a great voice, the actor answered simply:
“Yawn a lot”.
“Really?” ask Cohen.
Yes, Mister Cohen; it’s that simple. When you yawn, you help your throat and larynx to relax. In fact, the high and nasal sound of your voice is often a sound that your throat is to tense.
This technique is well-known. You can use it even if you are not an actress or a singer.
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Tip #2 Speak low
This point is linked to the first one in some ways. The loudest you talk, the highest you tone tend to be (think about those hair band singers in the mid 80s). It’s very difficult to speak loud and still be in the low register. So try to speak lower. That quality of tone will show that you are mysterious, sexy and intelligent. These are qualities that men are looking for.
Do you realize how powerful this technique is?
It means that you don’t even have to present yourself and show those qualities to the mean you want to seduce. No need to persuade him. Let your voice do all the work!
Now, you don’t necessarily have to whisper (even if that technique works when used at the right time). In general, just turn down the volume.
Exercise: read a book
A good way to practice speaking lower and still be audible is to simply read a book. But you will not read in your head. Speak aloud, naturally. Feel how your voice vibrates in your head, in your throat when you turn down the volume a bit. Try to reproduce that feeling when talking to a friend or to the neighbor.
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Tip #3 Find the right tone and vibration
Now it’s the time to talk about the tone of your voice; the quality of your voice. A lot of seduction specialists suggest women to create a tone voice that sounds a bit like the one you have the morning when you just wake up. I think that advice is good.
Think about Marilyn Monroe, Kylie Jenner, Catherine Zeta-Jones and Eva Green. They do have that tone quality when they speak. But how can you create your how style of sexy tone?
Exercise: Voice from the chest.
First, start by using your chest to make your voice vibrate. Usually, we use our head to amplify the sound. But here, your goal is to create that breathy, heart quality that those great actress have. All you have to do in fact is to think that you are sexy when you talk. Your tone will not only sound sexy. It will make the men (and women) feel like you are close to them.
A tip here: So use all your technique on women too. This is how you practice without being nervous. You develop your technique whenever you have the occasion to talk to somebody.
Exercise: Break up the rhythm in your voice.
When you speak (remember: lower your voice and your tone) make erratic pauses. It brings attention of the listener. Your calm says that you are not hesitating. The final effect is this one: men will feel that you feel great inside. You feel just like when you are sleeping on a comfortable mattress. Men surely will notice that attitude. Because if you feel that good, it means that you have may have the ability to make them feel as good
If you know what I mean…
The idea is to break the way you speak to hold the man’s attention. Be mysterious, hypnotic. Sure you don’t have to use that technique as much as like Kylie Jenner. But do vary your voice attitudes. If you want are exited, just show it. Then take that intimate voice to hypnotize.
And make hit do whatever you want…
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I’m sure you have noticed it, right? You don’t really have to change your voice to seduce men. You already have what you need. All you will have to do is to modify some of your habits. You will have to feel how your voice vibrates in your body. But the most important is that you will have you assume your “sexyness”.
Do you have any questions? Any comments, There’s a little white box below just for you! I’ll be more than happy to read your thoughts.
Now you know that you will have to embrace your sexy attitude to make a guy all in love. No need to change all your clothes. Only your voice can do the trick.
Now go! And find your amazing man