Today, I will talk about a new technique that will help you find a good husband faster. It simply starts with a principle that you should keep in mind. Now it’s very important to know where this principle is coming from first. So keep reading. Then you will understand why this idea is so important for you. Here we go.
It was better back in the days…
I’ve heard that one yesterday. Again. “Back in the days, things were better. Men were looking for a woman to marry.”
Here is the male version. “Back in the days, things were better. Women knew what they wanted. Now they have so much option”.
I will not judge those statements. It’s not the point today. What I want to talk about today is the meaning of those comments. Let’s say bluntly:
In the past, the system worked for you if you wanted to find a husband. Those days are over now.
Imagine. We are in the 1950s. An ambitious young man has a new job in a large corporation. He’s not married yet. He knows that he will have to find someone to marry if he wants to have a promotion. That’s how things work in the 50s. To be married was almost mandatory to get a high paying job.
Now, you already know how heavy the system was for women. If they were not married before their 30s, something was wrong.
Yes, that obligation is still present in some parts of our society (in church for instance or in politics). But, generally, it doesn’t really exist anymore.
Is that a pity? Was the system good? Maybe you will say “yes” because it worked in the past. Maybe you will say “no”: the pressure to get married was so heavy that it was easy to make a bad choice. But the point, here, is this: here you are, looking for a man without any help at all.
You can try to find a husband, dating men after men until you find the right one.
You create your own personal system.
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How to create a system that will help you find a good husband
Of course, you can’t really force a man to marry you (well at least, not legally). By system, I mean creating a group of people with the similar dreams who will have the opportunity to get together and share their thoughts, their hopes: getting married, start a family.
You, as the founder of the group, will give yourself the chance to meet men who like the idea of being married. They will not run away has they hear the “big word”; hey! that topic is the reason they have reached you.
Here are a few tips to create a system that will cheer you up in difficult moments, and where you will be able to meet and choose the type of man you are looking for.
Maybe you already have subscribed to a couple of Facebook pages. But do you know that it’s pretty easy to create one? To know how, just grab a copy of the book Facebook for dummies. You can have your page all settled in 10 minutes.
It’s very important to remember that your Facebook page will be local. What you want to do is to reach men and women with the same interest in your area.
Here are some steps you can follow to create your system using Facebook.
Start to write some post for your page: The subject of your posts can be your vision of marriage, what being in love means for you, how marriage has evolved through the centuries. Do not forget to ask some men to share their own point of view. You don’t want that page seen as an account only made for women.
1) Find your audience:
once you will have published 5-6 articles, start to think about finding some local subscribers. How? The Facebook boost is the perfect tool to reach your local public. Of course, this article is not a tutorial that will teach you how to boost your post on Facebook. There are plenty of great videos about that subject on YouTube. For now, just remember that you can reach, in your area, 100s of people with the same interest as yours.
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2) Get them together:
There will be a moment when you will feel that people respond well to your publication. It’s time to create an event!
It doesn’t have to be something big.
You can simply organize a get together in a restaurant, for instance. Ask your subscribers what topic they want to talk about. I have seen many successful evenings built this way. To meet people face to face is your final goal. You want to see new faces (especially men), people who are interested in marriage. The more subscribers you have, the more you will have the chance to find the right one.
It’s mathematical common sense!
Related article: to learn more about why the art of organizing a simple event is a wonderful tool to find love, read the article help me get a boyfriend.
I have already talked about this site. This tool is pretty easy to use. What I like with Meetup.com is that it’s platform has been created to help you build a following fast.
Sure, meetup is not free for the organizers. People with the same interest will be noticed when you set up your new group. They just have to press a button to follow you. Now, I just want to warn you about this: the hardest will be to make them come to the actual real meeting. It will be easier with time.
Again, I will not talk about how to organize a successful event with meetup. They are plenty of great tutorials available if you want to learn more about that subject.
Do not lose hope if you are still looking for a man to marry. Asking your friends and going in speed dating events are not the only methods available to find the man of your dreams. You can create your own pool and start fishing. Give this method a try.
Now you know that you can use technology to find your future husband. And no, it’s not dating online.
Go! And find your amazing man.