February, 2019 | The Right Husband

Online Dating Problems? Women Who Do This Feel Secure Online.

It works, it’s scary

“Please to meet you. Hope you guess my name” Sympathy for the devil – The Rolling Stone.

You tell me if I’m wrong. You have heard a lot of advice about online dating. Women who do this feel secure online.

YOUR FRIEND: “Online dating? Are you crazy girl? Those sites are crawling with maniacs. Anyway, what they really have in their pans is not half as big as what they pretend they have!”

Sure if she knew, your friend would have suggested one of those 7 alternative to online dating that GoDates.co proposes… Those ideas are effective; no need to scare people about dating sites… Anyway, the fact is that, despite the problems you can have using with online dating, some people have found love using this technique. It works.

“Let’s give it a try”, you say.

So here you are with 2 feelings rushing in your veins. You are kind of excited; you are scared to death.

“I’ve heard about so many online dating problems, Jo. I’m not interested in living those nightmares. What can I do?”

Well, here are 2 ideas to use those dating sites safely.

#1 Stay on the website platform.

I know that a friend of mine has made a huge mistake a few years ago. I never talked to her about that. Here’s what she did: she switched too early form the dating website platform to her personal email (and worst to your personal phone) to talk to a man. That kind of move is a bad one as your security is concerned. You don’t know who you are talking to. Let’s say that you are chatting with a real jerk who seems to have no respect for women. 2 minutes after the beginning of the discussion, here he starts asking stupid question like.

“Well, tell me how big they are?”

Believe me, those idiots are doing you a favor. You understand right away who they are. No need to ask yourself any question about their quality.

It’s zero.

I mean absolute zero.

The dangerous guy

“You can call me honey but you’re no damn good for me” Dangerous– Michael Jackson.

The dangerous one are those that hide their real nature. To smoke them out, you will need time. You lose that precious time when you give some private information too soon. Remember that even if you find out that this man is… well weird, he still has your phone number.

I still remember back in the days. My sister was annoyed by a dude who had no respect at all. He just could not stop calling her .

“ Stop calling or I will tell my brother, she said”.

I was not a tough kid. But I knew a few ones…

The point is this: stay for a while on the site platform to communicate. You don’t have to rush the process. If he finds out that you are an interesting woman, waiting will not bother him that much.

Anyway, today, most men know that there are about 3 men for 1 women on those sites. If he has a brain, he will understand that he has a great opportunity to talk to a lady. But what will you talk about? Well Renee Slansky has a great answer to that question. In her post 6 online dating tips to keep you safe, she says that you should ask questions. You know, just like you would in a first date. Play the detective and try to find out who he really is.

#2 Talk to me, baby

But there will be a moment when you feel that it’s time to talk. You want to hear his voice. How does he sound? He will probably feel the same. A lot of men are sensitive to beautiful female voice (I’m one of them). Is it the time to give your personal phone number?

Well you still have an option here.

In the beautiful article on lifewire.com the author suggests to use google voice. Brilliant! I have never heard of that service before. See google voice as a privacy firewall. You can obtain a google voice phone number for free and use it to route all your phone and texts to your real phone number. Wow.

It means that you will not have to call your big brother if a jerk is bothering you.

Do you have any question, any comments? Please share your thoughts in the little white box below.

Now you know that you can use dating sites without any risk of being harassed.

Go! And find your amazing man, lady.

Love,

Jo Fontaine.

XOXO

P.S Big love for all the little sisters in the world!

Those Couples Never Break Up. The secret of magical Relationship

Couple and relationship, Find a husband

He will not take it!

“Say you, say me; say it for always. That’s the way it should be” Say you, say me – Lionel Richie.

By the time you finish this article you may feel like you have a constant flow of ideas to communication more deeply with your man. Imagine that you can talk openly about your feelings. You can show with love that you are not agreed. But that’s all right. He understands.

He can take it.

He will not get onto his chair and sing with Twisted Sister

“Oh, we’re not gonna take it, anymore.” We’re not gonna take it -Twisted Sister

This technique is great because you can duplicate it and adapt it to any situation. Sure, you will need a bit of creativity sometimes. But this is what those enduring couple do. They always find a way to make their point. All they need is their imagination. Do the same and you will be part of their club.

A security blanket

Take a solid look at them. Of course sometimes, they are arguing. But it seems that those difficult moments are short. You can almost feel that there’s a good vibration that surround them in their house. You feel it in your body. What’s their secret? Well to start, realize that to make a successful couple, you can only do your part. In other words, he will have to respect his part of the deal.

Let’s say that you can be a real angel; if you are married to a demon, well…

I know that it’s not a fun thing to hear. But I had to tell you this (I consider you as a friend. So, no B.S)

Now let’s focus on what you can do on your part to create an amazing atmosphere in your couple: this kind of security blanket for your relationship. It will be there whatever happens in your couple.

Be a goddess, act like one

“Speech is silver, silence is golden; speech is human, silence is divine.” Dale Carnegie

“What? What do you mean Mister Carnegie? Should I stay there and say nothing about my feeling, about what I think?”

“Not really”, would say Dale Carnegie (well, I guess). He would say that sometimes, saying things like a goddess is way more effective that saying things like just a human being.

Besides, what a man do when he’s in front of a goddess, hum?

WAIT! Do you know what talking like a simple human being is?

Well, it’s asking like you are a needy person. You complain, you whine. Again and again… This is what Nietzsche would call human. Too human…

Here are some examples of being a simple human being.

“We don’t go out anymore”

“I’m sick and tired to wake up and feed the baby. It’s your turn”

“You go with your friends? Again?”

“Give me your coat. I’m cold”

This is not the way a goddess would act. Think about the Olympian Gods. They think about their pleasure first. I mean, they barely care about humans! They rarely complain. When they are, they act pretty fast to fix their problem. How can you think like a goddess? Make physical and verbal suggestions.

No need to say: “we don’t go out anymore”. Think about your pleasure and tell him this:

“I would love to do something fun with you.”

Then give a little slap on his behind. Or a little kiss on his neck.

You are cold, right? You want his coat? Tell him exactly how you feel.

“ Brr… It’s so cold…”

Then get closer to him like you want him to do something about it.

Yes, lady. Give your man the opportunity to be your knight (read the article How to find the perfect mate. Be irresistible to know more about that).

Think about your happiness and your well-being. Demand like a goddess.

Do you have any question, any comments? Please share them in the little white box below.

Now you know that being you at your fullest potential is to be a goddess.

Go and find your amazing man!

Love,

Jo Fontaine

XOXO

Suddenly this guy is crazy in love with you. The power of sexual tension.

Dating, Seduction

Imagine that you are walking in the park near your house. Some men are smiling at you. Some men are so caught in their thoughts that they walk, looking at their feet. Watch the tree in front of you, mister! Oh… Well, anyway…

It doesn’t matter.

Because, in fact, you are screening those gentlemen. You decide who’s your best candidate. And once you find him, hum… You just know. He will have a hard time to forget you: you know exactly what button to press to make them crazy about you.

“She drives me crazy. Like no one else”. She drives me crazy – Fine young Cannibals

Lady, the more you read this article, you will start to feel that all you already possess all you need to rock the men’s world. That’s good news. It means that you need no special talent to create some sparks in a man. No, don’t even need to look like a “10” (duh… what 10 means anyway? My ten is not the 10 of my best friend- more about that in the article Looking for a new boyfriend. Does your look really matter?).

Make it hot, make it happen

Have you noticed that, sometimes, you can almost cut with a knife the sexual tension between a man and a woman? They are just about to fall in each other’s harms. Imagine. You almost feel that you are a total stranger in the room; you think that maybe you should leave.

Even if the apartment is yours!

This is the kind of tension that you want to create as soon as you meet a cute guy. So where do you start? Here are the 2 easiest preparatory steps you need to make before you start to create that invincible sexual tension.

NOTICE: those 2 first steps will start to do the job for you….

#1 help

Again, the best way to approach a man is to ask him for some help (more about that in the article 3 ways to flirt like crazy even if you are shy). Use our desire to be a knight to your advantage. Just remember that it will backfire on you if the man feels that there is a kind of manipulation. So how do it? Just be natural. Be the sweet lady that you are. Then let him know that he’s THE MAN.

#2 the sweet nicknames

You have probably noticed that a sexy and safe nickname can create some magic between you and the man you want (to know how to use pet name, read the article 3 magical tips to make a man fall in love with you). The more you think about it, the more you feel the power you have. Now remember that if the man gives you back a cute name, it means you are in his love zone. Sure, maybe he wants to be sweet with you. That’s all. But you gotta start somewhere, right? Besides, isn’t that kind of men you are looking for? A man who’s naturally sweet and thoughtful?

Hot spots to break the wall

So you have made the 2 first steps. Great! Imagine the possibility: you can continue the seduction process using a simple technique. Remember, I talk about your magic weapon? What is it? Well, here it is: it’s your skin.

No, I’m not suggesting any kind of nudity! I mean, here, that the art of touching is one of the simplest ways to communicate with a man (5 tips to find a boyfriend to know more about the art of touching). No need to learn some complicated “trigger sentence to seduce”. The only thing you have to do is to remember 1 or 2 safe erogenous zones men have and touch them delicately when you talk to them (for instance when you say “thank you”).

Here are the 2 safest and hot zones

The inner wrist. Yes it’s a bit difficult to reach that part without being weird. Except if you move like you wanted to tough his arm… but missed the target…
The shoulder. Keep your hand soft and gently touch his shoulder when you talk to him. It may seem simple but if you have made the 2 preparatory steps, you can create some sparkle in his body in one second.

Remember. All you want to do is to break the touch barrier and make him wonder what’s going on. The safest places to touch are the arms. Give the man the opportunity to create in his head a sexy and romantic movie starring you. The show will start as soon as you are gone!

Now you know how to get in his head.

Go and find your amazing man!

Love,

Jo Fontaine

XOXO

P.S: Inner wrist, missing the target. Could you, ladies, make more of that “mistake”? Thanks.

P.S.S: I’m thinking about the song that says: “something in the way she moves” (Something– The Beatles). Listen to know exactly what you can do to a man. Click Here.

3 tips to make him crazy about you with just text messages!

Dating, Seduction

Safe and sexy

What if I tell you that you can flirt with a man like crazy with just text messages? It doesn’t matter if you are shy or if you are afraid of what he will think about you. This technique is safe. No danger that it will backfire on you. It doesn’t even matter if you just have met the man. So what is this amazing technique? You’ll be surprised how simple it is…

Time to play!

Well, first, remember that the moment you have his phone number, the ball is yours. I mean, here, that you have now the perfect opportunity to play with his mind using text messages. If you play your cards well, he will probably appreciate the flirt.

So here’s your tactic: All you want to do is to create some kind of light and sexy confusion in his head. You will start slowly and then if the results seem to show up, you will gradually put more heat in your message. So to start, you will begin with some safe (sexy) texts.

It’s all in the suggestion

“I’m willing for love suggestion” Love suggestions -Will Downing

Think about it. You can use words like magic spells. Words can create moods when they are well-used in a discussion. It doesn’t matter what is the subject. Humans are weird in some way. When we hear words, we then to adapt our body language so it fits to the language used. We want to be coherent to what’s going on. Now, your goal is want to create a mind frame, a sexy atmosphere so the man will have to answer to you with more and more warmth. No, it will not necessarily happen overnight. But your message will be a good start to test the water, if you know what I mean. The future will reveal what happened in his body when he read your text messages.

So here are 3 tips to follow to make a great sexy and safe text messages.

#1 do your homework

Remember what I said in the article 3 ways to flirt like crazy even if you are shy? Starting slow and discreetly is a great strategy. The idea is this one: keep him guessing about what’s going on. I mean, look at him! He doesn’t know exactly how to interpret your message. What is she doing? Yes, you are creating some confusion in his head. He won’t mind. It’s a fun and sexy feeling.

But what will you talk about, first? This is where you will have to your homework. Maybe that handsome man is your colleague, your neighbor. Maybe this cute guy is just behind you in your class. You will have to learn more about him. Do you know his passion, his preference? Let’s say that he’s part of the Steelers nation. Well you have a perfect opportunity to text him right after a football game. You can share your reaction. You don’t have to like the game. All you need is the result.

TEXT MESSAGE: “Steelers:6 Patriots: 21 . grrr!”

The point is this: do you like that guy? Do your homework. Go and read again you copy of the ebook conversation chemistry . Just refresh your mind. Find the best technique to find the information you need. Yes, there is a lot of tips you can use. The idea is to find the one that fits best to your situation. The goal: make the man talk about his passion(or find someone who know him).

It will be easier to text him if you approach him talking about things he cares. In fact, you will look like a cool lady to his eyes.

#2 The sweet nicknames

What? Oh, the game is just starting. You can put some spice in your text messages. All you have to do is to use some safe (but sexy) nicknames. Let’s say that your colleagues will meet together at 5 pm, near the pub after the office. Now, this man you like is not sure of the place everybody will meet. So you text him. Why not saying:

“It’s at the pub. At 5 pm, darling”.

You can start to use sweet nicknames (like darlin’ ,sweety) very soon in the seduction process. If you dare, you can even use the word “honey” or “baby” but those words show are more obvious. They reveal your intentions.

Remember: safe and sexy nicknames can do the job (in fact a lot of couples still use them years after they have been married).

Now what will be his reaction? Who knows? Certainly not him! He’s too confused. How strong it will be? Only the future will tell. But, for now, what you want is to create or to amplify a fire inside of him.

“Come on baby light my fire!” Come on baby light my fire – The Doors

This is a kind of confusion that we, men, love to feel inside. It’s sexy, clear and… not clear at the same time. Besides, use that technique and you will you just show that you are sure of yourself and fun to talk to. So you don’t even have to think about that BS people usually say men and their need to be the hunter and not the hunted (more about that in the article Help me find a boyfriend).

#3 create a behavior in his mind.

“ I guess I’m all confused about you” I’ve been thinking about you – London Beat

The idea, here, is to suggest an idea in his mind. It doesn’t matter if that idea was there or not in the first place. If it’s already there, he will look at you surprised and ask himself:

“ How does she know?”

If he doesn’t, he will start to think about it right away. You are a winner on both sides!

The next time you discuss with him, finish your discussion with a last funny and sexy message like this one.

“And stop thinking about me like that?, will you?” ;0)

Like what? He will probably smile if you already have the habit to call him with sweet nicknames. In other words, the timing is right.

When you want to flirt with discretion, the timing is everything.

Do you have any question? Any comments? There’s a little white box below just for you! People will appreciate your ideas.

Now you know how to mess up his mind, right?

Go and find your amazing man!

P.S if he starts to flirt with you, nothing stops you to go further. As long has you feel comfortable with it, go lady! Have fun!

P.S: “Brace yourself tonight, baby”! A shy woman (who would be my girlfriend) texted that message to me. That day, I just knew it: “ I have the golden ticket”. You too can create that emotion in a man!

What? You want to join the Steelers Nation? My girl! Click Here.

Love,

Jo Fontaine

XOXO

3 ways to flirt like crazy even if you are shy

Dating, Seduction

Girl, you already have it.

Imagine my sister and me a few years ago. We are in her apartment, talking. She’s still single and almost desperate. She’s looking for a man to marry. But first, you need to find a boyfriend, right? Well it’s not easy for everyone…

The problem is that she’s shy.

Now, things start are getting better for her. She can talk to stranger without having a broken, nervous voice. But how the heck can you flirt with a cute guy if you feel the need to force yourself to just talk to a neighbor?

“Well, a shy woman is kind of cute for a man”, I say. “You can start with that…”

She looks at me surprised. I know that I got her attention.

“ I would even say that being shy is almost sexy”.

Of course, the rule of thumb will be that the more you are shy, the more discrete a flirt technique will have to be useful for you. In fact, the advice that specialists give to men will apply to you. Here’s what they say:

“The best flirt technique is the one when woman ask herself: was he flirting with me?”

Think only about the idea. You want him to notice you. You just want to flirt in some way that you can play the game without blushing too much. Right?

Now, do not imagine that the discrete moves you will make will have less impact than the bold ones. Remember what I say in the article 3 magical tips to make a man fall in love with you? Men are easily impressed (and we like it that way!) So if you think that you don’t have what it takes to flirt or if you think that you wouldn’t dare to flirt with that cute neighbors, here are 3 moves that you can use today to make him notice you.

#1 can you help me?

You have seen it many times in the movie, right? The lady is crossing the street with her groceries and drops a bag. It happens that a cute man is near her and comes to her rescue. Aw! So cute….

It doesn’t matter if you already know him or it he’s a total stranger. Find a reason to ask for some help and there’s a good chance that he will be more than willing to play the valiant knight for you. He can’t help it: it’s in his DNA…

Now will that technique work at 100%? Well not necessarily. If he doesn’t, well ask you this question: would you go out with that kind of man? Maybe you have talked to a total jerk ( but let’s be fair: maybe he was in a real emergency).

Do not forget to use some touching techniques to give more depth to the first contact (more about that in the article 5 tips to find a boyfriend). A little “thank you” is not enough. For instance, gently touch his shoulder with your hand. You know, just like a woman would do when she approves her man with admiration. Do not forget this idea: start as soon as possible to act like a girlfriend.

# 2 United, we stand…

“Do you need anybody?” A little help from my friend – The Beatles

Here is a great opportunity to say what you think about a man. Organize something (or even better make a suggestion) and invite your friends. This technique works best if you already know the man. What? Your colleague is gorgeous? Great! So it means that he already knows the persons you will invite in your next party. The idea is to talk to him, give him a good idea of what you think about him and at the same time let him understand that all you wanted is to tell him why you think that he should hang out with your gang. Have fun!

Again, has you talk to him, do not forget make some light physical contacts.

“Was she flirting with me?”

# 3 dress to impress

To dress to impress is what we could call a passive way to flirt with men. This idea is to use that technique with the 2 first one. Now, you have probably heard some advice like that you should wear more red. Well that depends on your preference and if that color fits to you… Here I will not tell you exactly what you should wear. In fact, the way you dress doesn’t have to be that complicated.

All you have to do is to find out what is your “best feature” (A.K.A what part of your body men like the most).

Maybe it’s your legs, maybe it’s your bottom. Now let’s say that it’s your breast. You do not need to wear a low-cut dress (hey! you are shy, aren’t you?). All you have to do is to wear something that will give a little of oomph to what you already have. Here, maybe a different bra will make you even sexier. You say that you have beautiful, sexy lips? Try to wear a nice red lipstick. Let’s say that you are able to give a man a heart attack with your legs. You don’t have to wear a mini skirt if you don’t want to. They are a lot of different style of pans made to show to the world how sexy you are. Take your time to find the right one for you.

Realize

“You got the look. You sho’nuf to be cookin’ in my book.” You got the look – Prince

Here I will tell you exactly what I said to a lady just a month ago.

You will have to accept that beautiful sexy part that you have. A lot of shy women don’t realize the “asset” they have. As a man, it just amazes me! You need to realize that you may have something that men just love to watch.

Yes girl, you are sexy. Too bad for you!

Now if you do not want to be too noticed, I understand. It means that you will have to find the sweet spot where you will be notice without being too noticed. Or, in another word, noticed only by the men you want.

This is a dream that many women have. I understand. Well, it will never happen! You are beautiful? Then you will be beautiful for everybody.

But the idea worth to be kept in mind: Being sexy without being to obvious. Flirt without blushing…

Do you have any question? Any comments? Please, share your thoughts in the little white box below.

Now you know how to flirt like crazy even if you’re shy.

Go, lady. And find your amazing man!

Love,

Jo Fontaine

XOXO

Archives for February 2019

It works, it’s scary

#1 Stay on the website platform.

The dangerous guy

#2 Talk to me, baby

He will not take it!

A security blanket

Be a goddess, act like one

Make it hot, make it happen

#1 help

#2 the sweet nicknames

Hot spots to break the wall

Safe and sexy

Time to play!

It’s all in the suggestion

#1 do your homework

#2 The sweet nicknames

#3 create a behavior in his mind.

Girl, you already have it.

#1 can you help me?

# 2 United, we stand…

# 3 dress to impress

Realize