Say it so he will hear it
You are my friend, so I will admit this. Hummm, It’s not easy since, a lot of us, men, don’t like to show our weak spots. So here we go…
We are really touched by what you ladies sometimes say.
I mean you definitively can get a boyfriend using text messaging. All you have to do is to use it the right way.
Texting can just make a man smile, make him feel warm inside. You can make him fall passionate in love with you with your phone
The woman who would be my girlfriend texted to me some of the most beautiful thing I ever heard (Or read? Anyways). I still remember when I said to myself:
“Wow. She’s cute but she’s not the type of girl I usually go out with. But man! She’s incredible. She’s special.”
This is where you want to be in his head. “She’s special. She’s different”. At that time, no matter how you look, you are dear to him; he thinks seriously about you. You’re about to have a new boyfriend! Yes!
Here, I presume that you already know the cute guy you are talking to and that you talk to each other sometimes. Isn’t that the reason why you are interest? You like his personality, his smile. He has such a great inner beauty. No, the fact that you think he’s sexy has nothing to do with it… Nooo….
So this article is not about seducing a guy that you have never met face to face. It’s another ball game; we will talk about it later.
So here are some ideas that will help you out to make him weak on his knees. Have fun reading this article and adapting those ideas to your own style. First, please, I beg you to remember that…
…This is a man!
Last week, my drummer, Stephan and I were talking about how most of you, ladies, text. Boy! What a novel! And that just to say that you had a crappy day? Why don’t you just say it?
“Man, we are in rehearsal right now, Stephan told me. I don’t have time to read all this…”
If this is true when a man is in couple, imagine when he’s not. I know that you want to express your feelings. But find a way to be concise.
“Had a shitty day… I will tell you later. Anyway I feel good when you are here”.
Do that and your man will like you for that. He will be so relieved.
Don’t sweat about it. But…
Another danger is texting too much. Most men use texting to share information. That’s about it. Once it’s done, the discussion is over.
“Dude, we meet at 9.30 at the pub. Yeah!”
Lady, just try to remember that men don’t like to get too much pointless messages. He will only stop answering; He will run away the next time he sees you. Text a few times but hit the target every time.
“But what about the spelling?”
Don’t worry too much about it… Yes, read your text before you press “send”. But don’t be obsessed about misspelling. If you make a mistake, you always can make a joke about it. Hey! You can even sometime blame the auto-corrector.
Again, just try to be short when you want to say somehting. Here’s the best way to do it.
It’s like a thousand words…
When something happens, I’m pretty sure that you, usually, are emotionally descriptive when you talk. Aren’t you? It’s OK. Most women do the same. Now, you know that that men do not have a good stamina for this kind of discussion. It creates a kind of ear fatigue. We start to lose interest in what you say (even if we care about you). Use picture words when you text and you man will hear every word you say.
Think about this text:
“I want to see you tonight. I miss you.”
One day, a woman who was pretty aroused, thinking about her man wrote this:
“I have a lot to energy to spend. Be ready. I’m going to rock your word tonight. “
You want to say to him that you are thinking about him?
“This afternoon, I saw a beautiful piano in a music shop. I thought about you. Missing you…”
When you are a musician and that your lady text you something like that, you can’t help it. She got you. You are touched. Now, tell me more about that cute man you want. How well do you him? Do you know what he likes, what are his dreams? It’s time to do some research and ask questions. You, ladies, are better than us to do that kind detective’s job without even getting noticed.
Man, I still don’t know how you, do this!
How to make great text message?
“But how can I make sure that my messages are brilliant, fun and not boring or redundant?”
Well here is a technique that I think is the best to learn and progress in anything you want to do: learn from the masters.
Of course, you can always click here and read why the book conversation chemistry will be your best tools to write bright and clever messages.. Now, who are the best at writing great texts on their phone? It will be a bit difficult for me to give you the answers since those kinds of messages are private. But you can always find something that is close enough to what you are looking for. In our case, we are looking for the best in short messages.
One good idea is to just have fun reading funny, bright tweets. You can do Go to twitter and find some women who write brilliant, funny message. Read them just to laugh, to be amazed how bright they are. Don’t think too much about how you will try imitating them (anyway you will without even thinking about it). What you want to do is to fun d and to become soaked with the freshness of their ideas.
Here is a great list of 30 funny women to follow on twitter. The list is a bit old but most of those ladies are still writing.
Now who are those ladies who always make brilliant, funny quotes? Think about the movies. No doubt, again, the greatest is Mae West. There was genius in that lady. She was not only funny and bright. She was a provocative, strong in her movies. Maybe Mae West will be your best model to write great message on your phone.
Do you have any suggestions, any comments? Write them below in the little box.
P.S. Imagine if, at the right moment, you text to your man this:
“When I’m good, I’m very good. But when I’m bad, I’m better”
Now you know how to shake a man’s blood.
Go and find your amazing lover!