It comes deep from the heart, doesn’t it?
“I want a boyfriend”
You will put the best chance on your side if you understand this principle that I want to share with you. Strangely, his law is pretty simple but seems difficult to grasp for many people.
But it will not for you.
It will be as simple as those long math formula; you know the big line of X, Y and Z’s the teacher used to write on the blackboard? (I’m only kidding)
So here’s the idea.
The faster you want a boyfriend, the more you will have to learn how to seduce.
Now, if you do not feel confident in the art of seducing or if you think that you have no talent at all in this art, you can always count on the number game: this game is based on a principle that every seller know. It says that the more “no” you get, the closer you are to get a “yes”.
It means, in the love game, that the more men you meet, the more you will have the chance to find the right one.
Now, remember that you are free to use the strategy that you want. There is no right and no wrong. But with the second option, it will take more time usually to produce some fruits (if I can say it that way).
Another problem with the number game brings is that it hurts.
I mean, do you like to hear a “no”?
And last, but not the least, the number game will not help you when you see a man that you really want to meet.
Let’s say here is that guy. He works in your office, or he sits near you in your classroom.
He’s so sweet.
But how to approach him?
This is what you will learn today: how to link together the basic steps to make a man want you.
As you read this article, you will know what to do to get his attention.
Create that spark.
What is seduction? It’s the art to create a spark in the heart. This is the main goal.
And that spark is the beginning of some kind of sexual tension.
Wouldn’t it be wonderful to create a burning fire inside the man you want? Sure it would.
But even a wild fire starts with a spark.
This is what you will have to create inside your man. And every time he will see you, it will grow and grow…
As a man I can tell you this. This is a fantastic feeling that you will give to the man you want to meet. So we are not talking about any kind of manipulations whatsoever.
There are 4 techniques that should be used together for the greatest effect.
Your sweet eyes
I know, you have read a lot about this. The eyes are the windows of the soul.
But it’s not only a cliché. It’s true.
To quote Aristotle in my own way, I would say that what’s similar will connect to each other soon or later.
You talk to a man that you feel very attracted to. His brown eyes are so beautiful, you can’t stop looking at them.
What will happen?
He will feel something too.
He may not know exactly what it is. Is this emotion is love? Maybe not (at least not in the beginning).
But for sure, he will be a bit confused.
That’s a good start. Now as you look at him, try to…
Say his name
This is true for everyone but especially for a man: Men love to hear their name coming from the sweet lips of a woman. Say his name as often as possible. It will make the discussion more personal even if you have a business talk with him. It will make his feel special. Of course, like in everything else, you don’t want to overdo it. You don’t want to look ridiculous. But you will find a lot of occasion to say his name…
About laughing his jokes
You have heard that one, no?
“Laugh when they make a joke. Men love it”.
Again, this is a cliché. And like a lot of them, it’s true to some point. Men love to make woman laugh. But they will know if you try too hard.
I mean, you don’t want to sound like Cordelia Chase (remember the TV show Buffy the vampire slayer?).
She was trying to seduce a man using that technique. It was too loud, too obvious.
It was a real disaster…
Here, you have the chance to show how cute you are: you can laugh sometimes. You can chuckle or you can smile saying those words that always create a great feeling in a man
“And then he gives me a smile that just seems so genuinely sweet with just the right touch of shyness that unexpected warmth rushes through me.” Suzanne Collins- the Hunger Games
Yes this is the power the smile has. A smile can make a person fall in love with you in a second. It can open doors that seemed inaccessible.
Here is one tip that can do wonders if it’s well done. When the man you want to meet comes to talk to you, do not smile to fast.
It’s like you offer him something delicious to eat and you say:
“Take your time to savor it”.
Do that and you will create the impression that you are slowing down time. There’s a good chance that he will move slower. He will hesitate in his movements.
Are you sensitive to beautiful and sensual voice?
Here men and women are equal. The voice can seduce if it’s well-used.
A sensual voice let us immerse in the erotic universe without even thinking about it.
Here are a few tips to speak with your best sensual voice
- Never speak aggressively, or at a high pitch.
- You, the sensual woman, will always have a calm and unhurried voice; a bit like if you have never really left your bed.
- Try to find your deep voice. Make it sound natural, warm. You will use that voice to give information to your male colleague at work; to the man you meet at a party, to talk to anybody.
Think about Kylie Jenner. It will help you find your sexy voice.
Remember: Low tone means self-control, relaxation. It means for a man that you are cool and hot at the same time.
And the most important: Use that voice and you will make men feel great.
Now go, and find an amazing man