In a precedent article, I have said that men are easy to impress. Time to use that truth to your advantage, ladies! So here are 2 safe ways to flirt with your date and turn him on (no need to sleep with him or to kiss him).
Check the post The #1 technique to flirt with a guy without being obvious to know how to seduce with being nervous.
1# The real art of smiling
Sure, you have already heard that one, right? Everybody talks about how important it is to smile. Yes, nobody wants to date an unfriendly person. But this rule is true for men and women. In fact, it’s such a basic social norm that even your car dealer perfectly knows that, to sell, he needs to smile and be friendly.
Sure, his technique is too generic. There must be something more that you need to use your smile as your best seduction weapon, right? Well, here it is.
If you want to distinguish yourself from the other ladies out there, you will have to learn how to reproduce some particular type of smiles. You will have to know exactly when to use them and why. Here is one example.
The my, my, my smile
“My, my ,my…”
Try to observe how you smile and tilt your head on one side. What is your total body language?
Now keep that smile in mind the next time you meet a man you like. That’s the kind of smile you will need to flirt with a man. Sure, you will have to wait for the right time. Maybe he’s courteous with you. What? He says something brilliant?
Oh… now he’s bending over just to pick up his pen on the floor…
This is the right time!
First look how he reacts. At the beginning, he will be confused when we will look back at you. Not every man can “process” easily a “my, my ,my”… look.
(Note: you don’t have to make your smile provocative. Your smile can be just cute. But if you want it to be hot and heavy, go for it!)
Check the post 5 tips to find a boyfriend to know more about seduction techniques.
2# The art of touching
Now think about the male body. You can touch some areas safely to put some heat in a man’s heart. For instance, look for his arm. Ideally, the best strategy would be to touch the inside part of his arm. The effect is automatic and very powerful; unfortunately, the opportunity to touch this place doesn’t happen that often… When can you use that technique? The perfect timing is when you need to ask him a question. The contact in this situation will seem appropriate. But your real intention is quite different!
Another great area of the men’s body: the shoulder. Pretend that have a problem with your shoe. Put your sweet hand softly on his shoulder and start to adjust your shoe.
By the way, if you can, let him take a peek to your feet. This technique is h-o-t.
Like I said in the precedent section of the article, all the juice of flirting is in the timing.
Check the post 3 magical tips to make a man fall in love with you to know more about how to play with his feeling and make him want you more.
A bonus-The chest
The chest is a very erotic place for men. But it seems to be a “touchy” area (if I can make that pun).
“How can I touch the chest of a man without making the gesture too… well… sexual”, you ask?
With the right timing, almost everything is possible. Wait for the right opportunity. Suddenly, dog barks. And impatient driver honks the car in front of him. Just pretend that this sudden sound made you jump. Then touch his chest like you need some security. To make that situation less dramatic, you can smile or even laugh. Using that technique will create two different effects in the man. First, he will enjoy that sexy moment. Two. He will feel like he’s the man. He’s there to protect his lady if a danger is approaching.
A great mix of sensations.
To tell the truth, I don’t know how many women used that technique on me. But every time a lady used it, the effect were powerful, almost intoxicating! Men are suckers of this type of feeling. Play on that weakness.
Nobody will complain about it!
Check the post 3 ways to flirt like crazy even if you are shy to learn how create the feeling men are craving for.
So why are all those safe moves important? Because most men are scared to death to approach you. The reason is, in fact, pretty simple: they don’t want to be rejected or worst: being called pervert. This is the type of society we are living in. There’s nothing we can do about it, right now.
You must understand that side of the male psyche if you want to flirt with men.
A funny illustration of this problem is the last Nestea ice tea ad (click here if you have not seen it yet).
This song is a perfect description of how most men feel about approaching you for the first time.
Use the flirting techniques to break the ice. Those seduction weapons are perfect to make him understand that you are available and that you like him.
Now all you need is to do is to nurture the chemistry that you just have started to build with that guy. Do not hesitate to go back to your copy of the eBook Communication Chemistry to refresh your mind about the art of creating a wonderful chemistry with a man.
By the way, if you want to know more about that program, you can start by watching the free lesson that bestseller authors and relationship coaches Mirabelle Summers and Amy Waterman have prepared for you.
So check it out here: Communication Chemistry.
Do you have any questions? Any comments? There’s a little white box below just for you. I will be more than happy to read your thoughts.
Now, you know that you can (and should) flirt with those cute men around you. Practice makes perfect.
Go! And find your amazing man