1 thing that you can do when you are sick and tired of looking for mister right.

Some women complain about their life. A few ladies do something about it.

In this article, I will talk about 1 thing that you can do when you are sick and tired of looking for mister right.

So to start, I want to talk about a woman who has decided to follow that simple rule in the most spectacular way. Then I will explain how you can follow the same path in your everyday  life. Here we go!

 

Introducing Laura

Laura is Italian. All her life, she has been looking for Mr. Right; she’s still waiting… So one day, she makes a big decision; she literally makes a pledge to herself.  She says:

“OK. It what if I still not married when I’m 40? Well, I will simply marry myself, that’s all.”

One day, the big number is arrived. She’s 40. Laura starts to organize her own wedding. Yes, she will marry herself!  I mean a real, big Italian wedding.

(Do you want to know more about Laura Mesi? Here is the article).

 

Here’s the 1 thing that you can do

What Laura is doing is a statement.  What she says is that she will no longer think that she needs a man to be happy.

This is the big step that you will have to make soon or later.

What is wonderful is that an emotionally self sufficient woman is a person that most quality men are looking. The reason is pretty simple.  A man who has a goal in his life doesn’t want to find himself with a ball and chains around his ankles. He wants a life partner. Not a woman who keeps complaining about her life.

To be sure that this wonderful man doesn’t slip through your fingers, you will have to do what Linda did. You will have to consider yourself differently. You will have to take care of yourself. How to do that without being too extravagant? Well, a simple way is to see yourself as a houseplant. Yes, lady. A houseplant.

Check the article 5 signs that show that you are ready to find a boyfriend to know why hapiness in a woman is sexy for men.

 

Near the window

“More light” –Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe

Think about how you take care of your houseplant. What is the first thing you do? Well you try to find a good spot for your plant: a place where it will find all the sunlight it needs to grow up

Now see yourself as the plant and as the owner. There are some place where you feel that grow faster. You just feel rejuvenated.

“When you leave a beautiful place, you carry it with you everywhere you go.” Alexandra Stoddard.                                 

Those places are where you will get all the “sunlight” you need. You want to grow, to build yourself, to get all the energy you need to shine when men are around.

For instance, one of my place is my favorite coffee shop. This is where I write most of my articles and my music. I feel so relaxed there. I’m always smiling. I know all the employees and they know me.

“Here is your coffee, sir. Already done.  Just as you like it”, says the lady near the cash register.
“I hate you”, I answer. “You know me too well…”

For sure, there’s a place where you will feel that you have all the time needed to think about yourself. Find that place.  Here are some examples:

• • Your church
  • A park
  • The studio where you practice yoga
  • Your favorite book store
  • A library

 

Now, go regularly to that place.

You don’t have to know why you feel that good in that place. Just go!

Absorb that all the energy you can. Enjoy the moment.

The more you do that exercise, the more your friends will notice that something is changing in you. Eventually, the man you want will feel your fantastic vibration; he will try to find out who you are.

 

Need water?

When you decide to happy by yourself, you will not only understand that some places are better than others. You will make some decision concerning what you will want to hear and think and what will no longer concern you. Again, see yourself as a houseplant. To grow, you will need water. You don’t want your roots to be dry. Now, as your mind is concerned, what do you think is your water? What are the thought that will give you more energy, more happiness?

Well first you will have to think about all those thoughts that dry you out. Those ideas are everywhere. You think about those lines you heard all day long.

• Things were easier back in the days… Look how my mom has found her man…
• Men  ain’t S&%t
• People are more and more egocentric
• This society is going to hell.
• Women are enslaved to their image

All those thoughts are drying you out. You will need water to grow up and shine. Here are some ideas to “re-hydrate” yourself.

• Have more quality  time with positive friends
• Read good positive, inspiring books. You can read some great biographies, some old philosophy classic, or the bible for instance.
• Some movies are just great! They will help you find that good vibration and will help you to keep it once you feel that you are “in the zone”

 

More?

Here is something fun to do.  I will give you some recommendation that specialists give so your houseplant continues to grow. Try to relate those suggestions to your personal development and well-being.

• Select a good pot with a good drainage for your plant
• A plant is not a nomad. Do not move it around a lot.
• Find a good fertilizer.

Now you know what to do when you are sick and tired to look for mister right: you focus on your personal well-being.  The effect on men will be tremendous.

Do you have any questions, any comments? There’s a little box just below just for you.

Go and find your amazing man.

Love,

Jo Fontaine

XOXO